Circumsition in grown up men (after 30's)?

Question

I want to know the pros and cons of circumsition in grown up men? Is it very painful? Do they need a long recovery, special cares?

Answer 1

Well mine SMELT!!!!! It always quickly built up of smegma even after showering & washing with soaps, shampoos etc down there.

I got circumcised at age 28 & it was for medical reasons & both I and my EX girlfriend were both VERY reluctant.

We were BOTH pleased with the results

My Ex said she thought it felt bigger {So BakeryLad - Sweettoni isn't a stupid ***** she to me obvisously feels that it feels bigger - Der - I know who is stupid & it is not her - My ex reasoned that coz there is less skin that is the reason why it felt bigger though locially it isn't.

My orgasms were way more intense

Pube didn't get stuck inbetween my foreskin

I could pee straight

No smegma - didn't/doesn't smell like it used to.

My girlfriend AFTER I was circed ENJOYED giving me head.

I lasted longer!!!!

I 've worked with other guys who got cired as an adult & NOT one regretted it.

Oh yeah the pain afterwards wasn't THAT bad as I've read sometimes in answers.

I only have two regret's - not get it done even tighter as I have a bit of loose skin on the side - one day I will get a recirc

& my only other regret is NOT getting it done sooner.

to the Anti - circ's or guys who think they've been damaged - GET OVER IT & enjoy your penis WITH or WITHOUT your skin. Just enjoy it.

Answer 2

Pros:
1) cures rare medical conditions that cannot be treated otherwise. Very rare.
2) Some shallow, superficial women think it looks cute. Some, however, also find cut men intolerable (for slightly better reasons - the cut penis is kind of uncomfortable for the woman). Mature women care about things like honesty and sense of humor, not the details of your equipment.

Cons:
1) It hurts! Not while it's being done, but for weeks afterward. You have to be very, very careful not to get an erection while it is healing.
2) You lose as much as 75% of your sexual sensation. The foreskin is designed for sexual pleasure.
3) The other function of the foreskin is to protect the most sensitive part of the penis. You will lose even more sensation, as the glans (head) now rubs against your clothing. For a while it will be raw and sore from the rubbing, but evenually it will get hardened and desensitized. Once that happens you may have to use "personal lubricants." You may also be incapable of climaxing from intercourse and have to finish by hand. Very demoralizing.
4) Your partner will experience much less pleasure, as the smooth gliding motion is replaced by the harsh hardened scar. Use that lubricant!
5) You'll be a little bit smaller.
6) It's permanent. Many men go through the slow process of "restoration," but those nerve endings that were in your original foreskin are gone forever. All you can get back is the protective function, which is better than nothing. But you will never be whole again.

Answer 3

I refer you to Genesis 34 (and specifically verses 24-25):

"All the men who went out of the city gate agreed with Hamor and his son Shechem, and every male in the city was circumcised. Three days later, while all of them were still in pain, two of Jacob's sons, Simeon and Levi, Dinah's brothers, took their swords and attacked the unsuspecting city, killing every male."

Imagine how much pain it would be that just two men were able to overpower all the men of a city! (We have better painkillers these days, but it will still hurt!)

Pros: Important to Hebrews and some Christians as a sign of being set apart for God. Increases sexual pleasure for a while (although men report that sensation returns to normal after they get used to it). Sometimes it's necessary to treat conditions like phimosis or paraphimosis. Looks a lot nicer once everything heals. Some women report that circumcised men are better lovers (although this is largely personal preference).

Cons: Hurts! Hurts! Hurts! (top 3 reasons) Risk of bleeding or infection.

Finally, consider this: I was circumcised when I was a baby, and couldn't walk for a year! :~)

Answer 4

adult male circumcision is a nasty painful operation . My father was done when he was posted overseas in the Army a long time ago. If the man has reached the age of 30 without it being necessary I cant think why it needs to be done now.
Unless it is absolutely necessary do not get it done. Its a horrible procedure. That is why they do it to newborn babies. Extremely painful. I am a nurse and I know these things. its very bad for small boys too. Imaging a clitoridectomy.

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Answer 6

pros, better sex for the guy, and aparently the female to but that seems to be different for all.
cons, wasn't done soon enough? only con i can see, and the 6 weeks of no sex.
and no it is NOT painful, i got it at 23, 2 years ago. it's just uncomfortable for a couple weeks thats about all. if a guy says it's extremely painful he's just sooking.
2 weeks of uncomfortableness, 6 - 8 weeks fully healed.
just have to cover it to shower for the first week.
well worth it. in my opinion, and my g/f

Answer 7

Why would you want to do such a stupid thing. Talk about pain - it will be the worst you ever had. If God would have meant for you not to have foreskin, you would have been born without it. It was put there to protect the head of the penis where most of the nerve endings are located. Circumcision at your age would mean that most of these nerve endings would be cut and sensitivity to the penis would be much less making sex far less enjoyable. It's your penis, so do what you want. Good luck!

Answer 8

First If he is your MAN and is thinking of having this done, YOU WILL NEED TO GO STAY SOMEWHERE ELSE UNTIL HE IS ALL HEALED. LOL My husband at the time friend had this done back in 2004 he was 35 and I wanted to go visit him and take care of him, HE wanted nothing to do w/me, Only because the site or thought of a female HURTS the WEE WEE LOL I just ask my Husband he said 6-8 weeks Recovery time. The surgery was not long at all and If he had to do it all over again He would not so he says. He was walking like a Cow Boy. lol This Is how I knew he really LOVED ME because he did it for me, I ask him to not thinking he would and years later before we were married he did. But He did not want me near him when he was recovering. He's fine now and I think IT MADE HIS WEE WEE BIGER. NO JOKE

Answer 9

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Answer 10

Tell him not to do it!

Don't make him do it!

Leave it alone. It CANNOT GET BIGGER BY CUTTING OF PART OF IT OFF. Who ever said that is one stupid b!tch. He will lose most of his pleasure. Well, he might be ok with anal if you like that. The vagina just won't be tight enough for him after a while, he will not get much feeling.

His mother had him cut.
I don't do anal, never liked oral, poor d.h.