I dont intend to be gay again. Nothing is impossible, remember that...especially in america, right? Okay?
2006-11-21 14:35:27 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I didn't come up with the term cure....I just dont like it if gays say its impossible, because thats what they want to think and not a fact
2006-11-21 14:41:33 · update #1
shes a cookie: you know I have my treatment right now and happy with it. PS: the treatments are getting better and better just so you know. Soon you wont be able to throw your evil comments anymore because we'll be just like everyone else, so you better get used to it.
2006-11-21 14:47:50 · update #2
hi holdempro. its true I am happier now with my friends. I dont miss the sex at all. Also not the going in clubs. I enjoy my life - for me. I say to lesbians : the woman you are looking for is within you. I really think homosexuality is not the way its supposed to be, and my friend, well, he died, and before he died he went to god, just like me...When I became schizo I looked for god, we look for him when we have a problem, not before, unfortunately...But I am happy, even really happy. Anyway happier than before.
2006-11-21 15:04:28 · update #3
If you were still gay, THEN you might actually be a cure for it!
Dang, you are one crazy critter, whatever the hell you are.
2006-11-21 14:42:06 · answer #1 · answered by imaginary friend 5 · 9⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry that you don't like it -- but I stand rather firmly with the American Medical, Psychological and Psychiatric Associations in saying it isn't a disease, and there isn't any cure for something that isn't a disease.
If you were bisexual, then you have the capability of choosing one or the other -- though not of eliminating all feelings for the other. If you were actually gay -- then you still are. I've seen no evidence whatsoever to the contrary, at least among males -- I don't claim to understand what may happen with women, though it seems unlikely.
You are right, this is America, but what does that have to do with asking me to tell you a lie? I won't do it and I don't do it -- and you can assert and affirm until the end of time -- but regardless of your assertions and your affirmations -- and whatever fears and troubles you have that make you want it to be different, nevertheless, people who are genuinely gay and not bisexual cannot change.
To say otherwise is to lie -- and it is to harm others who have done no harm whatsoever to you.
Regards,
Reynolds C. Jones
PO Box 1322
Schenectady, NY 12301
believeinyou24@yahoo.com
http://www.rebuff.org
2006-11-21 23:24:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
One cannot cure that which is not a disease. Being gay is a condition; a state of being, not a disease. Hence, it's not something that can be cured.
One *can* concievably change a state of being, but a change is not a cure. (And the attempt is likely to leave you quite insane... even if you succeed, which while not impossible is extremely difficult. Remember, you are fighting against both conditioning, biology and your own subconscious attachment to who you are. It's not what I would consider a reasonable choice to make.)
2006-11-22 01:48:40 · answer #3 · answered by angiekaos 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What is the cure for bigotry and hate-spewing? You certainly need that.
God makes LGBT people, and straight people, just as they are. Who are you to denigrate any of God's children or gifts?
I have found that most people who claim to have been "cured" are no less gay, but choose to no longer act on their natural orientation.
I know you espouse that you feel differently, but that doesn't change MY experience and the people I have talked to. Nevertheless, that doesn't give you the right to come here and demean us.
2006-11-22 14:08:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You missed your lithium again, didn't you?
We all know your overly religious sentiments are only symptomatic of your delusional state as a schizophrenic. You've admitted to being schizophrenic previously, so anyone who's take even a basic college level course on Abnormal psychology can see through your comments to the real root.
Get back on the lithium and continue to see your psychiatrist on a regular basis. Make sure to tell your psychiatrist that you're attending one of those "reprogramming" "ex-gay" groups so you can get help immediately for the damage they're doing to you as a schizophrenic.
2006-11-22 00:21:58 · answer #5 · answered by DEATH 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Here's the thing. Can you stop having same sex encounters? You bet. People chose celibacy all the time. Look at nuns and priests. And people chose to be celibate for other reasons. Because of physical problems I would probably be celibate myself if not for the needs of my partner. But even if I were celibate the rest of my life I still would be a lesbian. I would know from what sex I was choosing to abstain. It's kind of like forcing a left handing person to use their right hand. It can be done. It used to be done in the US and is still done in Middle Eastern countries. It just tends to **** kids up and give them learning disabilities.
2006-11-21 23:57:00 · answer #6 · answered by jane7 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Look honey you are on cloud nine. It will wear off and you will realize you are not in reality. Break it down like this. If you were once gay you will always be gay! It's like being a little bit pregnant , It's not possible. You lack emotional intelligence. I will pray for you.
2006-11-25 15:30:16 · answer #7 · answered by Namaste 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no cure for being gay and there is no cure needed because it isn't something that needs a cure. Being gay is as natural to gay people as breathing is to everyone alive. It is somethings that should not be seen as bad or wrong but sadly it is . Good luck with your "cure"!!!!
2006-11-21 22:41:25 · answer #8 · answered by qdeezy 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
because you can't "cure" something that is not a disease. if you are happy being "not gay"...then, good luck with that. it's a free country. I just know that I am who I am, and I refuse to pretend and lie to others or to myself to make other people happy. I used to hide who I was, and I was miserable. and I've been out for quite a while and my family, friends and coworkers accept me for who I am. and God created and loves us all.....just the way we are. so, if God and all the people important to me accept me, then why should I "change"?
2006-11-21 22:42:47 · answer #9 · answered by redcatt63 6 · 6⤊ 0⤋
How long do they let you out??? Loony Liz your straight jacket is missing you, quick go find it dont leave it alone....
And to answer you "question" which by the way didnt make sense, there is no "cure" for being who you are, other wise you wouldnt be loony at the moment...
2006-11-21 22:43:08 · answer #10 · answered by Shes a Cookie 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You know, you are living very mentally unstable, i cant believe you say that your not lesbian anymore because you think god condems homosexuality because of a misunderstating of the bible. I know what happened, i know your friend died of AIDS, dont think that its some punishment god put forth, AIDS is not directed to Gay people, in fact more straight people die of it daily then gays. Dont think it is a punishment, Would your friend really want you to act this way? If gay people were suppose to be punished, why more of the heterosexuals dieing than homosexuals, just because your friend passed away with AIDS doesnt mean it was a punishment, it was just unlucky, a misfortune, I dont know you, but you disappoint me, dont live in denial, do you think you are truely happy? ask yourself, please pull out of this.
2006-11-21 23:00:40 · answer #11 · answered by holdempro89 1 · 6⤊ 2⤋