my frendwas going out wit a boi and like now im going out wit him and now she doesnt wanna be my friend enymore
2006-11-21 14:23:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
DUH!! Don't you watch TV? YOU NEVER EVER GO AFTER A FRIEND'S EX!!! and if you hurt your friends feelings who cares about how cute the guy is don't you care about your friend? NO OFFENSE but i don't think you are being a true friend
2006-11-21 14:32:36 · answer #1 · answered by Pretty "N" Simple 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Technically speaking, you're not actually doing anything wrong as your friend is no longer with him although as stated by someone on here before, it does depend on how it ended - if he dumped her and now you're with him she probably feels a little betrayed by you as though maybe you're selling her out for him. In away, you can understand why she might be mad - although you're not actually doing the wrong thing by her as you're not cheating or sneaking around with him, she probably told him some personal stuff when they were together and now you're together with him, she's feeling weird and hoping he doesn't betray the trust she once placed in him - especially if he was to blurt out some embarressing things she may have told him, to you.
2006-11-21 14:35:32 · answer #2 · answered by Kble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't blame her. It's a given that you lose your girlfriend if you go out with her ex. Now you have to make a choice. Is it worth it. You'll probably break up with her ex eventually. I think your friendship with you friend is more important.
2006-11-21 14:33:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then she's not much of a friend. EX means no longer together. He is no longer HER boyfriend so he is free to go out with whomever he chooses, YOU aren't otherwise involved with someone so YOU are free to go out with whomever you choose. This friend simply needs to grow up.
2006-11-21 14:26:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats right. You should never consider going out with someone who went out with your friend. Thats like dating someone your sister dated. Just wrong. There are some things that are just off limits.
2006-11-21 14:35:32 · answer #5 · answered by flutterby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to me it is crossing the line to date my friends ex. i would never do that because that is an awkard situation to put both of them in. and then it will always be in the back of my head that friend has slept with my man
2006-11-21 14:29:00 · answer #6 · answered by jumiboo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends if she broke up w/ him hes all urs she shouldnt care if u go out or not but if he broke up w/ her its kinda harsh
2006-11-21 14:25:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
would u want him to dump u and go out with another friend of yours????
2006-11-21 15:48:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it. once he uses you, you will feel like sh!t 4 losing him and your friend.
2006-11-21 15:58:23 · answer #9 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋