this girl from another town i know wants to hang out every weeked. shes an ok friend we dont know each other that much but she deffinataly likes me and i just dont feel that way. bottem line is i dont want to hang out wiht her and i cant keep making excusses every weekend.
what should i do to make her take the hint that i dont like her and i dont want to hang out
2006-11-21 14:16:42 · 8 answers · asked by tom33091 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Girls (and guys for that matter) do not always take subtle hints very well. Although it is easier said then done you need to tell her how you feel. If you are tired of lying to her by making bullshit excuses then I feel that you might still have a chance as a good person. You need to be honest (not to be confused with hurtful) and tell her that you do not want to hang out with her every weekend, and tell her why. You are friends and only that, you should more then likely apologize if you have done anything unintentionally to lead her on. Life isn't always easy or fair. If you want to continue to hang out with her let her know that. But don't be unclear in your intentions. Best of luck to you.
2006-11-21 14:29:41 · answer #1 · answered by kelreefl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time she calls and asks you to hang out just tell her that you aren't interested in hanging out anymore. The best way to do it is over the phone. Maybe tell her that you aren't going to be able to go down there and you don't want to trouble her to come to your town. If she says she will tell her not to waste her time, you'll be pretty busy. If she doesn't get the picture, just tell her as kindly as possible. She deserves to be treated nicely by the guy she likes whether or not you like her.
2006-11-21 22:24:07 · answer #2 · answered by snowbaby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
iight dude, be a man srry to be so plain but be a man and stand up for u self tell the truth be lik hey i know we havent been hanging out much and i have been saying and making up excuses for us to not hang out but the real reason is i just dont have feelings for u and i just dont really wanna hang out with u i wanna do more than that say something lik that man and ur prtty much set
2006-11-21 22:21:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know that while you had some fun you really want to go out by yourself for a while.
Making sure you're not rude you really don't owe her anything.
Be honest because making excuses just puts pressure on you.
2006-11-21 22:24:56 · answer #4 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her..it will hurt her at first. but it is better for her to hear it straight up from you rather than to figure it out through the grapevine or to finally have her put two and two together. she would be crushed then. have enough respect for her as a person to let her down as gently as you can.
2006-11-21 22:29:33 · answer #5 · answered by beckdawgydawg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come up with your own version of "I'd really rather not, thank you." If she persists. "No, I don't think so." "No really, thanks." Followed with a quick, "Sorry, I've got to go."
And the voice has to be right: friendly, but absolutely firm.
2006-11-21 22:25:07 · answer #6 · answered by Millie M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way is the truth...
2006-11-21 22:19:53 · answer #7 · answered by melanie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get a friend to bail you out of it...make him tell her that you are gay...
It should work.
2006-11-21 22:20:32 · answer #8 · answered by melomane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋