I'm pregnant and my boyfriend whom is 16 slapped me. It was VERY hard and left a red mark and knocked me on the ground. I already established that I don't trust him but should I move back next door with my parents and eliminate him from my daughter's life when she is born. Because I don't feel comfortable and I don't feel my daughter is safe with someone like this.
2006-11-21 14:02:53 · 12 answers · asked by 13 year old girl 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
But I mean my parents are only willing to help with money/babysitting so once I get home from school the baby is completely my responsibility. Then I again when she is asleep I can go outside so nevermind.
2006-11-21 14:39:03 · update #1
Dont ever stay with anyone who hits you. He will do it again and again.
2006-11-21 14:05:14 · answer #1 · answered by Blondi 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl seems to me you already know the answer. At your age you should be living with your parents or a family member anyway. Pregnancy and parenting is hard enough for someone at my age or older. But at 13 its gonna be super ruff. I went through an abusive relationship. Believe me it will only get worse. There are so many horror stories about men who beat women. Just the other day on Maury there was a woman who her bf had beat her and they weresplit up he was getting help so she went back to him. Tha night he asked her to ome over after work cuz they needed to talk. So she went over he told her to sit own he walked outta the room. He came back in with a glass filled with gas he threw it on her at first she thought it was water but thenshe culd smell it was gas. The took lighter and set her head on fire. He left her to die she finally got it put out by the grace of God. She ran to ge family members house and called the cops.
2006-11-21 14:38:34 · answer #2 · answered by Kimi is 31 weeks 1/7 w/#2! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave. no woman deserves to be hit. i am 37 weeks pregnant, and going through this on my own. i was with a guy for 3 years, and we split after i found out i was pregnant. he was very abusive towards me and he even knocked me down a flight of stairs while i was 8 weeks pregnant. thank god it did no harm to my baby, but i am happy to say he is no longer in my life, nor will he be a part of my sons life! good luck hun!
2006-11-21 14:11:21 · answer #3 · answered by arleleee20 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't feel safe then you should get out of the situation. It's never okay for someone to hit you.
I must say your are smart to think ahead and know that you don't want your child in that kind of environment.
2006-11-21 14:07:02 · answer #4 · answered by DressageGal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE! get out of there, there should be no reason that you should have to deal with someone slapping you, or even someone you don't feel comfortable with. Take him for childsupport and document that he hit you with writing, dates-times, and pictures. But leave. Don't stay
2006-11-21 14:06:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to leave him don't bring a baby up in that. He might hit the baby and more and likely he will hit you. You DO NOT have to take that. Good Luck
2006-11-21 14:07:38 · answer #6 · answered by dreamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definately LEAVE If he hit you once he will do it again and when the baby is born if he wants to see his child you should make him have supervised visatation to make sure he doesn't harm and hurt the child thats what I would do.
2006-11-21 16:57:50 · answer #7 · answered by kitten16_18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, he's and idiot, and you deserve waaayyy better then that. So does your child. You should absolutly move back with your parents. You will need all the help you can get! Good Luck!
2006-11-21 14:12:14 · answer #8 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your life will b changing alot , baby or not. ****** is always going to b dad but u do not have to b with him. if he hits u it will just bring u down and after while u will just think thats the way it is. life can b great but when stay in that stiuation u screw yourself and your baby
2006-11-21 14:53:26 · answer #9 · answered by Tarasa C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave
2006-11-21 14:08:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋