I told a guy who likes me that I am not ready for a relationship. I let him know that I really like him, but I don't know when I will be ready and that I don't want a boyfriend right now. I love his company and all. We kiss and hug, but I'm not sure I want to go further. If you must ask why, the reason is that I don't think he is a boyfriend material--not right now.
Do you think he can stick around for me? I mean staying as a friend first and see how it goes.
PS: HE and I work together.
2006-11-21 13:13:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm willing to wait for a long time. Patience is the true key to true love. I understand why a girl doesn't want to become my girlfriend. If the person you're talking about stops waiting then that's one less person that is right for you leaving less that you think are right for you.
2006-11-21 13:20:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are confusing him with the kissing and hugging. He wants more. Stop the mixed signals to him and by all means be sure to tell him this.
Since he is not boyfriend material he may just be trying to get at something else! If he can't be a friend, you will have your answer. If he continues to cross the line, then you have a bigger problem. Never date anyone you work with! You may have to leave the job when the relationship breaks up.
2006-11-21 21:23:13 · answer #2 · answered by believer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well for one he might stay if he likes you alot. ALSo you say he and u work together, so whatever happens you and him will see each other anyway. SO how do you know he isn't bf material, maybe he thinks your not gf friend material. ALl I am saying is talk to each other and find out if it will work out because you might now find him when you finally think he is bf material. SO don't lead him on. If he really likes you he will wait if he does oh well another one bites the dust.
2006-11-21 21:28:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
after 3 weeks im getting 'itchy' but if the girl is right, i could wait much longer - so long as i detect zero tease
2006-11-21 21:15:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. I personnaly measure how long i'll wait in a relationship, depending how eager, and how much i like the girl.
2006-11-21 21:16:32 · answer #5 · answered by §†reet R¥dA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really likes you he will stick around for a long time . if he don't i would give it a few weeks.
2006-11-21 21:18:34 · answer #6 · answered by pickledaddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will certainly date others, becuase he wants to have sex. Take comfort in your decision.
2006-11-21 21:16:50 · answer #7 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what your doing is right if he wants you he will wait
2006-11-21 21:16:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no end. it will be on last
2006-11-21 21:17:09 · answer #9 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋