i'm scared please help i dont want them to freak out i think my mom already knows but i dont know for sure
2006-11-21 13:11:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
just sit down with them and calmly tell the have books with u sow wen u tell them they can read them and Try to understand u. hope it helps
2006-11-21 13:15:40 · answer #1 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If telling them is something you feel like you want and need to do. Than tell them but you must be prepare for what comes next. I told my parents and before I told them I felt like there was nothing I could say that would make them not loved me the same. I was wrong! My parents disown me and stop talking to me because been bi is against their religion. I was totally wrong. Now you know your parents better than I so really think about it. Is it really necessary for you to tell them after all unless you are going to bring a woman to meet them what business is it of theirs what sexual prefs you have. I told them because I had met a girl and I was really serious about her and felt it was important for me to share it in the end it blew up in my face. So think about it and be prepare for what might happen.
2006-11-21 13:51:33 · answer #2 · answered by onelia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should if you think you're ready, and you want to. It's an important part of your life, but it probably will be quite a strange conversation to have.
What makes you think you're mother already knows?
Only you can decide, but I'm sure they love you sweetie, and even if they're shocked, they will continue to love you. They may just be relieved you're not coming home pregnant ;o)
x
2006-11-21 13:16:30 · answer #3 · answered by WildWildHeart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you financially independent from your parents? If they have a very negative reaction, what would you do? If you are independent from them, you can survive without them until they come to terms with your sexuality. If you are dependent on them, they can become controlling and dictate to you how you should live your life. You should do what is best for you, and if you are dependent upon your parents work for your own independence so you can tell them without any repercussions.
2006-11-21 16:28:20 · answer #4 · answered by χριστοφορος ▽ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom probably DOES know (most moms do) but I would tell them ONLY if you are not financially dependent upon them.
Don't feel pressured to say anything about it right away. There's no rush.
2006-11-21 13:15:36 · answer #5 · answered by lovehound6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am bisexual and I won't ever tell my parents. They wouldn't have a problem with it but it's my sex life and I guess I think that kind of stuff should be kept private.
2006-11-21 15:28:54 · answer #6 · answered by Your M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should, in order that they will find ways to empower you before the prejudicial environment. You have a normal soul to achieve high dignity like all other human beings.
2006-11-21 13:17:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i went through the same thing you are going through now first you should your closest friend then when and only when you feel comfortable tell your parents they may not like what you are but they will never stop loving you. trust me that is what my parents said when i told them i was a lesbian
2006-11-21 14:59:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you tell your parents that you llike to suck co-k? Then why tell them you're bi-sexual?
It is none of their business -- unless you want to have a threesome with both your mom and dad...
2006-11-21 13:17:27 · answer #9 · answered by Flashy Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Behave yourself young lady!
2006-11-21 14:41:10 · answer #10 · answered by rick m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋