We are financially in the pits, we are in the process of building a house that is not finished (no insulation, only heat is a woodstove) and he's got so much to do already (fixing our cars, one was wrecked and still needs work (bearing joint) and his car needs work too. I know he's stressed out as it is, but how can I break this to him? He's a Virgo, if that helps any, for all your astrology people out there. Plus, I don't know if i'm ready to have a kid. They are a PAIN in the butt!
2006-11-21 13:07:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I think that you should find out for sure first. Take an early pregnanct test. Then if you are I would get him a card that says something like Happy Father's Day
2006-11-21 13:17:31 · answer #1 · answered by Ms. Johnson 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am 37 weeks pregnant. This wasn't a planned pregnancy. My husband and I had travel plans and plans to move into a bigger house etc But when we found out after a couple of days we looked at all the great things it would mean to our lives.. We have gotten used to the idea now and are awaiting our precious gift... I believe everything happens for a reason.. So your husband might be alot happier than you think.. Good Luck
2006-11-21 13:15:54 · answer #2 · answered by Honkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your own baby wont be a PAIN in the butt..lol, But no time is ever right to have a baby. You never know, maybe he will be totally happy. Even if we were in a bad situation, I would be excited to tell my husband, and he was always happy. Sure things may be a little stressful, but it will turn out to be the best thing you have ever done. When that baby comes it will be a very happy time
2006-11-21 13:31:54 · answer #3 · answered by Blondi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if we waited to have kids till we could afford it then the world with ppl would be gone!
just when i got pregnant my car was dead .. we had to go get a "new" one .. like you and most we are not rich. but things seem to work out ..
congrats btw
tell him as thou you 2 were planning it . celebrate this wonderful thing.
yes kids are a pain but so is being alone without a child as you age .. notsharing your family traditions together and all
2006-11-21 13:42:29 · answer #4 · answered by iamblessed 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you know for certain that you are pregnant before sharing the news. No point in getting hubby stressed for a false alarm.
2006-11-21 13:15:41 · answer #5 · answered by Lizzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, there's never a right time for anything: To get married, to have kids, to travel. That's the beauty of life.
You have this amazing person in your life. You will never be ready for this. You will never be readier for this.
Congratulations to you and your husband! You're going to have a BABY! Yay to you!
2006-11-21 13:10:43 · answer #6 · answered by Amsterdam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might be shock to your husband, but first make sure you are pregnant, you do not want to go and say I think I am pregnant.
having a baby is a blessing.. I am going to have my baby in 1.5 months, I can not work and my husband is looking for a job, but we are so happy to have our little one. you can get things second hand, or ask your friends to buy you gifts for your shower...
do not worry you are lucky to have a baby
2006-11-21 13:44:38 · answer #7 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him and if your both not ready you can always consider adoption, there are alot of people out there that would love to have a baby. good luck
2006-11-21 13:16:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anna Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same thing happened to me twice. it's just as much his fault as it is yours, so if he freaks out, that's his problem. tell him to get you a test. and im a virgo, what does THAT have to do with anything?
2006-11-21 13:17:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you weren't ready for it, it wouldn't have happened.
Congratulations !! Now watch the miracles unfold.
2006-11-21 13:10:47 · answer #10 · answered by synapse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋