have never had a boyfriend, am a virgin, and never seen an obgyn?
2006-11-21 13:05:39 · 28 answers · asked by kissn'tell 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
being a virgin - normal
not seeing an obgyn when virgin - normal
NEVER have a boyfriend - priceless
"a little...."
Blessings!!
2006-11-21 13:08:09 · answer #1 · answered by jodimode 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, I'm 16 and in the same situation, and I even thought about asking the same question. I do seriously ask you to consider going to the obgyn just to be safe because a lot of diseases happen without a woman knowing about it. As for being a virgin, not having a boyfriend, etc, don't worry about it. If it's your main priority, you'd have done something by now, but since obviously it's not, tackle your main priority before going to such frivilous things such as boyfriends. You're still young.
2006-11-21 21:08:53 · answer #2 · answered by Rika Ishikawa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, you are not WEIRD at all! There is nothing wrong for saving yourself! Sex is very serious! Nothing wrong with being a virgin or NOT having a boyfriend. You just are not ready. In time, it will happen. As far as seeing an OBGYN, it is very important to be examined EVERY year. Just because you may never had sex, you are still prone to ovarian or cervical cancer. It is so important to have your yearly exam!!
I hope that this helps you!
2006-11-21 21:11:52 · answer #3 · answered by shecatdevil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do think it is a bit odd that you have never had a boyfriend unless you know your a lesbian and it's concerning that you've never been to the gynocologist. You need to get a check up done.
Then again, I'm 22 not a virgin, on birth control, have had an abortion, but never had a pap smear. I'm probably worse off.
As for you never having sex yet, it's not a big deal. Sex is just an activity.
2006-11-21 21:09:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Why do you ask? You shouldn't have a problem with it either.
You ask the same questions all the time dear. It makes one think that you think the way you act is weird. Don't try to prove yourself to anyone, you don't have to.
Plus, for your own health, you need to see an obgyn. Medical problems occur with or without sex. I urge you to see a doctor, or you might end up with a nasty medical surprise.
2006-11-23 01:06:19 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, your waiting for the right person. Alot of people regret their first time, and I have a feeling you won't. Wait until you know its right, and there is really no reason to see a obgyn unless you've had sex. Take your time don't let society rush you into something your not ready for and could possibly regret.
2006-11-21 21:10:05 · answer #6 · answered by Ash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not weird. But I would suggest seeing an obgyn. Just for your health :)
2006-11-21 21:41:17 · answer #7 · answered by kasey06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are weird, I think you are normal and just haven't found the right person yet. As far as the obgyn, it might be a good idea to see one just to get checked out. good luck
2006-11-21 21:09:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anna Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wierd? Not necessarily. But . . . . .
What have you to offer males that would attract them?
For your own health you should see an ObGyn soon.
Female problems can arise without male interverntion.
2006-11-21 21:38:55 · answer #9 · answered by Rob D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't get my first b/f til I turned 20. I didn't start having sex with him til I was 21...no you are not strange. You are perfect right now. Keep waiting, the right man will come along.
2006-11-22 02:43:46 · answer #10 · answered by Velvet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋