2006-11-21 12:38:34 · 8 answers · asked by jz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Is there a question here????
2006-11-21 12:41:18 · answer #1 · answered by Mark K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever cheated on her before? You did not mention that question.
I have been there and done that, so if my wife did that how could I be in a situation to say anything. I know that she has done it before just like I have. Is it right? No it is not, but it happens to people that you would never dream of.
Why divorce? Most likely you are going to have to support her, so why divorce from it. I know a couple that have married each other for 3 times because of the same situation, and they still cheat on each other. The hubby is 61 and the wife is about 58.
Not everyone agrees with this statement but it is true.
2006-11-21 21:17:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are unhappy then there is nothing wrong with leaving. This is probably not the first time something of this sort has happened, this is probably the first time you opened your eyes to see it. Once a cheater always a cheater is true advice. You shouldn't worry about the kids. You can see them through the court system if your wife doesn't let you. If you want to stay and work it out, that's fine too but that is a decision that you have to make for yourself and pay for by yourself. I would leave her no matter the situation because if she loved you she would not do anything to hurt you and no amount of crying can say that she does. Find someone who loves you and move on.
2006-11-21 20:46:00 · answer #3 · answered by LJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only as caught as you let yourself be, but if you're not happy, your wife probably isn't happy either. You probably will have some hefty support payments but that shouldn't be a reason to stay. It would only cause resentment.
2006-11-21 21:10:03 · answer #4 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember divorce will cost you dollars, years on life, and happiness.
i can tell your in bad shape. hey dont be offended by this, but i bet you stop making love to your wife. her sex drive is in over drive. Another reason yourprobably a pain in the *** since you have been retired.
2006-11-21 21:00:53 · answer #5 · answered by ill take it straight with no ice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you owe it to the youngest child to stay married until he or she is 18. Finish the question though...
2006-11-21 20:43:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
finish the question....I hate imaginary endings.
2006-11-21 20:40:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it ,if it don,t fit ,don,t force it ,just relax and let it go
2006-11-21 20:42:27 · answer #8 · answered by Me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋