I will meet this man face to face though we just chat online in the past. Need your suggestions hurrily. Thank

Question

I meet a kind man, he is an africa-american. We chat warmly online. He invites me to go out with him this weekend. Can you show me some suggestions?

Thank you!

This the site we met ^_^ http://www.emilitarycenter.com/inter

Answer 1

Make sure you are safe. Meet in a public place like a cafeteria or a restaurant. Tell your friend(s) where you are going. Play it safe, don't show your adventureous side just yet. I'd suggest parking your car in such a way that if he walking you to the car it is still in public view. If you have to park in a parking garage - you can signal to him at the end of the eveing that the date is over and you would like to say "bye" and proceed further by yourself. Do not take a ride in his car just yet.

Answer 2

Yes - just like everyone else is telling you - STAY IN A PUBLIC PLACE. Don't go into a parking lot with him at the end of the evening. Bring a friend or have a friend meet you. And how do you know he is who he says he is? Once you have his phone number (home phone number) you can do a reverse look up. That might work. Also once you know where he works - you can look him up on the iternet.

I know it would be nice to just trust him - but if he sees that you are smart and cautious - and he's not a creep - he will understand.

What does his race have to do with anything? I'm a bit puzzled about that.

Answer 3

How old are you? If you are under 18, you should NOT meet him. Also, make sure to tell someone you know where you are going, what this guy's name is and his address. Make sure to meet him in a public place, and go in your own car, if possible.

I used to date online, so I've been there. Good luck! I also would talk on the phone to people several times before I would meet them. If I got a 'bad vibe' from them, I would not talk to them anymore. ALSO, you can check http://www.dontdatehimgirl.com to see if he's listed there, in case he uses his real name. GOOD LUCK and BE CAREFUL. Many people online are not who they say, or are already married. Check for a wedding ring, sometimes they forget to take them off.

Answer 4

I'd advise this on meeting anyone of any race over the Internet:

make sure you meet in a public place, and don't wander too far from public view. Make sure people know where you are. Make a joke out of seeing his ID - did he give you his real name? Call a friend at a discreet moment to fill them in on who he is (including name, city of residence).

There are a lot of good people out there... but no one wants to become a statistic. Be careful, and I hope it works out.

Answer 5

you should do some background info on him and take somebody with you when you go to meet him but act like you dont know them. just to make sure that youre safe

Answer 6

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Answer 7

is he safe? i'd be carfull if i were you, girl. i'd get a back ground check on him, and just so it don't seem so unfair, let him get a background check done on you too. but seriously, don't be going out getting yourself into more trouble then you should.
good luck and be carfull!

Answer 8

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Answer 9

if you're going to meet anyone take someone with you...and do a background check..