I was curious as to wat it would be like to be with another man so i experimented.. yes my boyfriend is...well was the only man i have ever been with. my frenz say i should not tell him because it will only ruin a good thing but i would like to hear wat u think. please give a reason for your answer. thanx
2006-11-21 12:20:13 · 15 answers · asked by Good_child 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if things are still good with him, why bother? I mean what does it hurt keeping it to yourself? You're not married, so you didn't do anything horribly wrong. If it truly reinforced in your mind that he was the guy for you, then it was a good thing. keep it to yourself. He'll be happier being ignorant of it.
2006-11-21 12:25:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it were me (I'm a guy by the way) and I had cheated on my girlfriend, I would probably come forward with the truth. You aren't still doing it are you? If so, you probably need to stop because he'll find out eventually. Remember, it's better to be honest now than risk him finding out. If it was me, I would feel guilty about it for at least a while. He'll probably notice that if it bothers you. And by the way, if I had a girlfriend who came to me and said she had cheated on me but stopped and wouldn't do it anymore, it would be okay with me. I mean, I wouldn't get angry or anything, I would just accept the apology. Do whatever feels right. Good luck.
2006-11-21 12:28:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should either dump him, or tell him & give him the opportunity to dump you. When you cheat, you are lying too.... Your boyfriend at least deserves some truth now- then he can decide if you are worth it.
But, cheating just out of curiosity is no excuse. You really shouldn't be in a relationship if this is how you feel.
2006-11-21 12:25:07 · answer #3 · answered by from HJ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you plan on staying together, dont say anything and remain faithful for the term of your relationship, but if you plan on cheating or want to be with someone else, dont ever tell him and break up for someother reason..........
You will ruine your relationship if you say anything......
2006-11-21 12:27:30 · answer #4 · answered by Jimbo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my, on one side, honesty is essential to a happy and healthy relationship. on the other, some things are better left unsaid. if you really love your bf and is sure that you will never cheat on him again, and there's very little chance that he'll find out anyway - then i'd say keep it to yourself. what he doesn't know won't hurt him right? besides, a woman is entitled to her own secrets.
2006-11-21 12:26:24 · answer #5 · answered by Bubuchachum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cheated on you,wouldn't want to know the truth? You ruin it when you made the decision to cheat.
2006-11-21 12:24:31 · answer #6 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes tell him! But if u truly want to be with him then stop cheating! If u don't tell and he finds out then your in big trouble so i say stop cheating if you want to be with him
2006-11-21 12:27:06 · answer #7 · answered by TJ Jones 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think U should stay with him & cheat on him more & more...
That will give U a lot of experience to be better at cheating on the next guy.
Also, then U know how to see the 'signs' & will know when they are cheating on u too..
2006-11-22 10:53:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if U want him 2 breakup with you cause that might happen otherwise keep it 2 yourself.Good Luck
2006-11-21 12:27:23 · answer #9 · answered by sugarbdp1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T TELL!! You'll regret it. Some things are best kept to yourself. At least now you know what else is out there and that you've still got it.
2006-11-21 12:24:22 · answer #10 · answered by Cameron L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋