So do I. Me and my wife separated 2 months ago and it don't look good. I want to work it out but she don't. If you are in a similar situation and need a friend to talk to e-mail or IM me. A womans point of view would be nice. Don't reply if you don't have anything nice to say. If you don't like my question go somewhere else. No I don't need anyone to feel sorry for me. I just want someone to talk to that knows how I feel.
2006-11-21 12:08:02 · 9 answers · asked by William T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well i kinda been there
the problem is that if you didn't have problems you wont have been separate in the first place ! and i am sure that they look so much insignificant any more.
so think it over and why don't you talk to her and see what she thinks
as they say display all the cards on the table don't hide any thing and let her do the same , be honest be clear and be direct to the point, and think it over are you sure you want her back !!! coz its not a game ! want her now coz you cant have her and when you have her you don't want her any more !!!!
just be honest with your self and her and see how it goes !
i am sure that she has some points to discuss and some stuff to say too ! call her and arrange a meeting, talk about everything
and go home and think about what you talked about and ONLY THEN you can make up your mind
and wishing yo best of luck ! and may be this time apart that you got gave you the chance to think how it would be without each other :)
hope it works out great for you tow :) take care and god bless you
2006-11-21 12:45:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was not ur wife i would say move on theres better fish in the sea but since she is ur wife i say keep tryin until u feel its time to give up...marriage is for life unless the other person doesnt want to keep their side of the deal. My most sincerist advice is pray, if there is any love in her heart for you he is the only know who can bring it out and mend broken relationships.
2006-11-21 20:19:09 · answer #2 · answered by exceptionallyexceptional 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i miss my ex alot but i know that what me and him had is all in the past it hurts cause we were together for 3 1/2 years but he said he wish he never met me when i stood by his side when he was locked up for a year but hey life goes on and u will find someone that will take some of the hurt away .... i hope all works out for u
2006-11-21 20:16:32 · answer #3 · answered by dorothy_pierce2001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a women I know we are fast and harsh we do dumb thins w/ out thinking first give it time things could work but first had I aiso know that it might not I loved my ex husband 4 ever and wished hard all the time for it work again but if it had I would not have meet mr right really for me. best of luck
2006-11-21 20:23:42 · answer #4 · answered by edenwho 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I miss my x now and then but its best to back off an go looking somewhere else.There is a reason for this,and its better.
2006-11-21 20:12:14 · answer #5 · answered by DR.Frankie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Initially you will want them back. But if you managed to move on and find a really good partner, you will think how stupid of you to want them back. You left them for a good reason, don't lose sight of that.
2006-11-22 11:20:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want you ex back, why are you trying to pick up ladies on answers for... We can see right through your little hook up plot.
2006-11-21 20:13:22 · answer #7 · answered by BORED AT WORK 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God do I know how you feel.
2006-11-21 20:36:58 · answer #8 · answered by Bizzare J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No and no.....Good luck to you, tho.....
2006-11-21 20:11:05 · answer #9 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋