My boyfriend and I had sex with a condom earlier that night. Later that night we had unprotected sex but he never came. Can i be pregnant?
2006-11-21 11:59:15 · 9 answers · asked by miss-ag 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
thank you for your responses, and my question is not about why he didnt ***, its about the situation
2006-11-21 12:19:01 · update #1
yes you can be preg anytime you have unprotected sex for one thing in your case his *** from earlier could still be on his penis and second pre *** even if you dont think he has that he does and it also has sperm so dont even let him rub it around your privates unless he is wearing a condom.....take a test girl if pos g/l if neg you have a second chance dont screw it up this time
2006-11-21 15:04:20 · answer #1 · answered by crazyme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Regardless of whether you used a condom the first time, unprotected sex can lead to pregnancy even without ejaculation. The fact is that semen is naturally released in small amounts throughout the sex act. Withdrawal greatly reduces the risk of pregnancy but the risk is still there.
For that matter, there's still a risk of pregnancy as high as 5% even WITH a condom. The risk of contracting STDs is reduced through condom use but is still as high as 13 and even 20%. It depends on the virus. Did you ever notice that the condom packages brag about 95% or more effectiveness *for pregnancy* but leave out percentages for viruses? A virus is WAY smaller than a sperm.
We get sold the lie that condoms will keep you 100% safe from AIDS but the truth is pretty scary. Plus, condoms are bad at protecting from HPV which can lead to infertility and cervical cancer.
The truth is that the only safe sex is monogamous sex within a committed relationship (i.e. marriage). Studies also show that it is the most satisfying form of sexual relationship and is damaged by pre-marital (and, of course, extra-marital) sexual relationships.
Word to the wise.
2006-11-21 20:10:09 · answer #2 · answered by Rob VH 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is a possibility!! If he did not wash off the excess sperm after removing the condom(by bathing), then there is a chance that it might have been some left behind. Believe me!! I know from experience, and thats why my husband and i call our second child the oooops!!! Go and see your GYN--Best of Luck!
2006-11-21 20:06:57 · answer #3 · answered by Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is possible for you to get pregnant. He could have sperm still on his penis from the first "round", and there is sperm in what is called pre-ejaculation. That is the small amount of fluid that comes out way before climax. You'll just have to wait and see if you get your period next month.
2006-11-21 20:22:20 · answer #4 · answered by Gypsy Girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
technically you could get pregnant that way- but as far as him not coming it was prolly that all he had stored up went into the condom and he didnt make more yet.
2006-11-21 20:05:48 · answer #5 · answered by NewMommy!!! 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, you could get pregnant that way, but the chances are pretty slim. You'd have to be very fertile!
2006-11-21 20:25:52 · answer #6 · answered by jay 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is a scary thing to think about, but it is possible. ALWAYS stay protected. Men can release sperm even if they haven't reached their "peak."
2006-11-21 20:11:46 · answer #7 · answered by maggie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a chance you can become pregnant. a man does not need to *** to release sperm.
2006-11-21 20:06:46 · answer #8 · answered by Gerry Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he probably just doesn't want it for a while.
2006-11-21 20:04:18 · answer #9 · answered by smallfrie 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋