My girl is starting to gain weight. i dont like it. i want her to stay skinny. i really like her slim body. how should i tell her that?
she is about 5'5 and 93 lbs weeks ago. but now... she is almost 99 or 100 lbs!
should i take away her breakfast?
2006-11-21 11:57:51 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
why dont i eat breakfast?
because I DO NOT EAT BREAKFAST! i only eat LUNCH!
2006-11-21 12:03:15 · update #1
Thats very wrong
this is why so many women have eating disorders
to much pressure on women to be beautiful
that they do whatever it takes
you shold take her how she is, or not take her at all.
2006-11-21 12:01:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. Definately not. If she gains wait, so what? You should feel the same way about her no matter what she weighs. A 4 lb change isn't THAT much anyway. Plue eating breakfast is one of the most important things you can do to STAY thin.
If you make any comments about her weight she is likely to start thinking about it. If you continue to do things like tell her she shouldn't eat she will think about it obsessively and quite possibly follow your "advice" and stop eating. As you probably already know this is very dangerous. Do you know that eating disorders are the number one cause of teen death? The top killer of mental illness, because it is a mental illness, and people bring it on themselves. They have complete control over it.
I did some calculations http://diet.ivillage.com/healthcalc/calculation_result and found that based on she has a body mass (weight in proportion to height) and found that she has a BMI of only 15.35 which is very low. The healthy weight for her height is 127-141 lbs.! Which would put her at a BMI of 23.28, a much safer number!
The truth is that right now she is probably underweight and could use to gain some pounds. If it becomes a problem that you think is affecting her then she should get some help, but under no circumstances should she stop eating breakfast.
2006-11-21 12:12:49 · answer #2 · answered by starr_wix_wickens_aka.starreyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it would be wrong because breakfast is like the meal of the day so a person would have energy and to think. just tell her that maybe she shouldn't eat lots of fattening foods during lunch or dinner. Not eating wouldn't be the right thing to do it would only make her weak
2006-11-21 12:11:01 · answer #3 · answered by eunice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not.
1. She is not overweight is she's under 100 lbs.
2. If you put too much emphasis on being thin you will seriously mess up her self image.
3. Breakfast is important.
4. Does she get exercise? Is she healthy?
5. Talk to a doctor before doing anything.
2006-11-21 12:01:30 · answer #4 · answered by MathGuy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At what point in your life did you get the idea that you have the right to tell her to do anything. If you plan on making the relationship last, you had better change your attitude. Politly talking will get you farther than demands. At 5'5" even 105-110 lbs. is not over weight.
2006-11-21 12:05:08 · answer #5 · answered by David V 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you have an eating disorder? You seem to only ask questions about eating and weight. I think you should try to take away her breakfast and then I think she should make you wear her breakfast :) Good day, I say good day!!
2006-11-21 12:02:34 · answer #6 · answered by zara01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
breakfast is the most important meal, and she burns off all those calories throughout the day anyway.
But that's besides the fact. If you are only with your girlfriend because of her physical appearance you should just let her go. She's going to dump you if you tell her you think she's getting fat, and you could get her started in an eating disorder that could kill her. Do you want to be responsible for that?
2006-11-21 12:01:09 · answer #7 · answered by D S 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No way - breakfast is the best food that starts the metabolism, if she skips it then she is more likely to put on weight by craving food and having bad sugar levels.
You need to be honest but tactful - maybe your could suggest walking together or others activities you can both enjoy.
Trying to impose your ideals upon someone is never correct, it is dictatorship on a personal level. You either accept her or go.
2006-11-21 11:59:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE A CRAZY MAN B****!!!!!!! That is WAY underweight!!! And you want to take away her breakfast!! People GAIN more weight by NOT eating breakfast. If I were you i'd get her to a docter right away she could have an eating disorder you fool!!!!!
2006-11-21 12:04:38 · answer #9 · answered by balletpotato 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok first of you rare going 2 learn 2 accecpt her the way she is and if you cant shes not giong 2 be ur girl .second offyou should be also eating bearkfast cause its good for ur body.third off she is more skinnyer that she need 2 be fourth off if you want her 2 be skinny why didnt u bringher in 2 a kruat[nazi] consantration camp.
2006-11-21 12:20:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she's 5'5 and 93 lbs.... she needs to gain a little weight, but when you start seeing tha fat, start to take away her breakfast.... but if she's jus gaining weight and you wouldnt notice if you didnt look at the scale then dont take her breakfast away
in other words....
if you c tha fat, take it away
if u c no fat, let her have it
2006-11-21 12:02:04 · answer #11 · answered by your last resort 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋