Would life go on without me as it always does. Would my family just bury me and forget me, as they have already done? Wha't the point in living a life of pain and sorrow? Why have I been cursed with seeing life differently from others. Why do I see life as it really is, just a senseless, empty journey that lead to nothingness?
2006-11-21 11:52:41 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Please don't.
It's depression. There are things you can do to stop feeling like this. You could learn an instrument, guitar is a great instrument to learn, you could play the blues, that would be a healthy way of expressing your feelings. It would give you the oppurtunity to get out in the community, my dad is a guitarist and he plays guitar for charities. It would give you a goal to work towards. You could get counselling. There are other ways and I could help you think of something you could do to be happy.
I'm going to email you tomorrow after school, please email me back so I know you are okay.
2006-11-21 12:46:16 · answer #1 · answered by epitome of innocence 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Life is never truly empty. You may not beleive this but your daily action effect others. YOU make a difference in someone elses life,even if you don't realize it at that precise moment. Imagine if Einstein had killed himself as a young man. Would that have had an effect on humanity? I once read where Winston Churchill was almost run over while crossing the street as a young man. What effect would that have had on British politics?
How do you know if you were meant to change the life of another later in your life? True,life will go on if you kill yourself and life is never fair. Any fool can kill themselves. That's the cowards way. It takes courage to keep going,and not just going but changing your circumstances for the better.
Do you really see life as an empty journey? You need to take another look.
The journey called life will show you the different people you'll meet. From the loving and honest to the envious,dishonest and cruel.
" Be the shining light that stands in the darkeness for all to see. Be the one who will blaze a path where there was no path so that one day others may follow".
2006-11-21 12:15:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Killing yourself will solve nothing. In a few years you will be at such a different place that you will look back and be saddened because you came close to killing yourself. It will be hard work to move on from this, but it is worth it. As for your children, demand a paternity test and regardless if they are your biological children, they are still yours. Take legal action against her to gain some custody or visitation rights. If I was in this breakup situation I'd think well she obviously doesn't love me like I love her, so she doesn't deserve me. There are billions of people out there, you will find someone else, who can love you the way you need to be loved. Perhaps this is not the best place to write something like this. Go see a psychologist or your doctor and get help to deal with these extreme feelings. Maybe join a support group so you can have people to talk to. Now is the time to depend on yourself, fix yourself so you can be there for your children and you. I hope you can overcome this negative time in your life.
2016-03-29 04:51:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is what you make of it. There are so many ways that you can help others that need your help, and there is nothing more gratifying than when someone thanks you for making their life better! It sure beats waiting for something good to happen in your life. Sometimes it takes a real long time. You always get back plus what you give of your time and effort. It doesn't have to be big things, and it doesn't even have to be for family or people you know, it can be perfectly perfect strangers. I have met some really neat people on this site, that are good honest caring people, that have actually made my life better. Just try to even answer someones questions, even something that small, can make a big difference in a persons life, even though you may think you don't make a difference in other peoples lives, you CAN! It will feel so good to have someone appreciate you!
2006-11-21 12:21:45 · answer #4 · answered by autumn wolf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I care as all life is precious. Do you have a mother out there somewhere. You will devast her. Remember you are still that baby boy she held. You have family, you maybe free of pain but they will care the pain till their dying day. Do you really want that. Go home & get a hug from your mother then find the courage to pick up the phone & call your local suicide no. You need some help to find new meaning to your life.
2006-11-21 12:05:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life would go on -- it does, but someone would miss you. It's all about attitude. If you don't like how your life is, it is up to you to change it. If your life is an empty journey that's because that is how you chose to live it. My life is full of ups and down and passion and sorrow, but it certainly hasn't been senseless or empty.
2006-11-21 12:02:09 · answer #6 · answered by tsopolly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do u know u see life different from others? it doesnt lead to nothingness...it would if you killed yourself though. if there wasnt a reason for living, why are there so many people doing it with no problem? maybe you should seek professional help. life really isnt that bad. it has its ups and downs, but u gotta look past that crap sometimes and see that its not all that bad...just parts. sometimes things are thrown at you to throw u off...blame it on the devil, thats just how it goes..he's an as*hole and likes to see people in pain. (excuse me if you arnt Christian or dont believe in satan). email me if u need to talk
2006-11-21 12:00:07 · answer #7 · answered by annie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is always someone that would mourn you. Even Eleanor Rigby had Father McKenzie. Sometimes people become self involved and don't realize that they aren't showing someone they love that they care. Sometimes people lose their family's love, but it's rare.
I think about it this way, what if all my hardship, all my pain and all my suffering was just there to prepare me for something fantastic? What if there really is something wonderful ahead? Try to have hope that there is something better for you. Try doing things that inspire love and friendship. Try volunteer work with children. They can teach you a thing or two about hope and toughing out hard times.
2006-11-21 12:04:48 · answer #8 · answered by Crimson Ananda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell you what.
Plain and simple. My mother killed herself, because she thought life wasn't worth it. She wanted a clean slate. She thought everyone would be okay if not better off with out her.
Guess what... That is NEVER right. To this day I miss her, as do many others in my family and friends that she never really realized had.
Killing yourself is the easy way out. Take the hard road... LIFE.
2006-11-21 12:05:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Life does go on.
They aren't meaning to "forget" you.
And of course they would miss you constantly and they would never forget you, because after all, your family.
Maybe their lives are hectic right now.
Give them time;
Otherwise just talk to them, talk to someone.
You were set on this earth for a certain job and maybe that is your job.
Be happy that your living now.
Because when life is gone, you will surely miss it.
2006-11-21 11:59:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋