Ok I would call my self heterosexual. But for the last 2 years I have always had lesbian fantasies and sometimes when I am in a mall or club and I see a hot girl I get the urge to just kiss her and if she is really hot I start to fantasize about stuff lol ... but I have only been with guys so I dunno.. am I a lesbian or bi or just bi curious?
ps once in a clothing store the lady helping me with finding sizes was hot and she intentionally touched my boobs, which felt good for a while but then I was like ewww I am straight! Am I in denial?
2006-11-21 11:51:58 · 22 answers · asked by dancingcorpse 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I am not a teen. And whenever I see a girl I have to look at her boobs too!
2006-11-21 11:56:46 · update #1
Not at all! Human beings pass through stages that are obviously not in our true sexual nature...It is only that: fantasies and please do not act them out...that's when regrets and emotional problems start setting in...After all, if we acted out every fantasy that occurr during our lifetime, we would probably be in jail, right? We are curious by nature and it's natural to wonder what this fantasy would be like. However, keep yourself wondering. Do not pretend that you can resolve your fantasies through real- life situations. It will end up only hurting you. Good Luck.
2006-11-21 12:02:23 · answer #1 · answered by Lois L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically, bi curious until one of these fantasies come true! And about the boob touching, you liked it at first because it seems to me this is what you want. Then you thought about thinking this in public and this is where the denial set in. My advise is to see how you do in private with one of these hot girls you have fantasies about. Put it to the test, see how far you go the first time and the time after that. You might have fun, and be the best experience you ever had depending on the men you been with. "Me" lets just say I'm a man that is confident in myself.
2006-11-21 12:21:42 · answer #2 · answered by KEN DOG 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think due to the many "visuals" we all take in sexually, it is more common than not to have such fantasies.
Now, acting on those fantasies and being in an actual relationship is all together different. I say no, you are not a lesbian; you obviously have sexual desires that involve a woman though. And I guarantee you this image was put in your head, based off of some sexual movie or scene you saw.
You would only be a lesbian/bi-sexual if these fantasies became a reality.
2006-11-21 11:58:40 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Albritton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The wonderful thing about fantasies is that you don't have to act on them, they're just there to be enjoyed. Some women have rape fantasies, it doesn't mean they want to be raped in reality, despite what defense lawyers are always claiming. In the fantasy they get to pick the time, the place, the guy, and what he does or does not do. Same thing with you, if your reaction to an actual advance was "Ewww I am straight!", then you probably don't even rate as curious, relax and enjoy being a straight lady with an active imagination. Nothing wrong with that.
2006-11-21 17:24:09 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
First off.. There is nothing wrong with being a lesbian.
Second, no you don't have to be a lesbian to think about women that way. i have actually been with a women that way and still look at hot girls. ex "I would so do Angelina Jolie." But, I'm not gay and I'm marrying a guy in 4 months.
It is a choice for some people. Maybe your bi? A lot of women are!
2006-11-21 11:57:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well you cant tell if your a lesbian really until you've really tried going all the way. if you do go all the way with a girl and like it better than doing it with a guy and much rather have nothing more to do with guys then you'll be able to know. until then i'd say your bi.
2016-03-29 04:50:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably bi curious...and about the incident in the clothing store, you were probably in denial about what happened, since you said "eww" in the end, but then you said it felt good in the first place.
2006-11-21 11:56:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOT AT ALL!!
I think that every girl goes through that. It's just part of finding out who you are. I am TOTALLY straight, but in college I 'explored my options.' Probably a little more than I should have... heh heh.
I know for a fact that I am totally straight and want to have a husband and kids some day, but everybody wants to see what's out there.
Don't worry, only you can figure out who YOU are.
nobody online here can tell you what your sexual orientation is... just give it a couple of years
2006-11-21 11:57:00 · answer #8 · answered by batgirlmeg 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Probably just bi curious. Alot of girls go through that. If you were a lesbian you would know.
2006-11-21 11:55:22 · answer #9 · answered by Indiana Jonas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think some people are naturaly curious, but if you was like ewww upon being touched then you are straight. One thing you might consider though is what the word of god says about it.
2006-11-21 12:01:22 · answer #10 · answered by saved by grace 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋