Before my bf and I were daiting he told me he was bi and now people know and they asked me if I kissed him yet and him and I have only been 2gether for 1week and we haven't kissed yet. And my ex bf was talking about him being bi and it made me uncomfortable.
2006-11-21 11:47:41 · 10 answers · asked by Steph1490 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Sweetie don't worrier about it.They are all gust jealous!If you like him still that all that matters.Know about your ex he proudly gust wants you back.
2006-11-21 12:02:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
people love to gossip. people love to put others down to make themselves feel better because they're jealous of that person. you've only been together a week. many couples don't feel comfortable (straight, gay, or otherwise) kissing in such a short period of time. i'm like that and i'm straight.
as for your ex... do you think he still has feelings for you? if so, that would explain him slamming your new guy and you should just laugh at his jealousy because he can't have what your guy has.
also, anymore it isn't such a taboo thing for people, male or female, to be bi, although it's more acceptable for a female. if you like this guy, ignore what others say, they're going to talk anyhow, and their opinions don't really matter in the long run: yours does. be true to yourself, not other people. you'll be much happier with yourself.
and as far as aids goes, there is scientific proof that it isn't passed in saliva, but in four body fluids: blood, semen, vaginal fluid, and breast milk. so don't worry about kissing.
2006-11-21 11:55:22 · answer #2 · answered by Mommyof4 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sherry, I suggest you READ more about AIDS-HIV. If you were able to type in your message here, there is no reason for you not being able to research about AID-HIV.
Anyway, if it bothers you that your boyfriend is bisexual then I suggest you talk to him sincerely. First, try to understand his bisexuality and his life before you meet. Tell him that you are new to this and you need to understand more. After that, you then ask him about some of your concerns (AIDS, men, ex-bf, sex, etc..). From there you then decide whether to continue or stop dating him. In fact I salute your boyfriend for telling you that he is bisexual. Most of bisexuals in the Philippines do not admit to their straight partners for fear of being ostricized.
http://www.freewebs.com/discreetbai
2006-11-21 12:32:45 · answer #3 · answered by PAXson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since 78% of all male sexual relationships with other males involves oral copulation rather than anal, (contrary to popular belief) they are most likely asking this very personal and none-of-their-business question due to ejaculation. Ignore them, what matters is whether or not you and your BF are happy with this relationship.
2006-11-21 11:57:17 · answer #4 · answered by Daydream Believer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the ymight think u might b grosse dout by the bi thing or they might not even mean it to do with the bi thing and might just want to knwo if u kissed him. ignore them.
2006-11-21 11:50:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aides is common amongst gay men. It is easily transferred to a non gay partner through saliva and intercourse. It could be your friends are concerned.
2006-11-21 11:55:11 · answer #6 · answered by Vida 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If all people are asking you is if you kissed him, they need to find another hobby. Please explain to them that what you do with your bf is your business. If it doesn't effect their bedroom, wallet or paycheck, it is not their business. Then, look for different friends.
Blessings!
2006-11-21 11:52:15 · answer #7 · answered by Janet R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's your bizness who cares what others think.If you are comfortable with it thats all that should matter.
2006-11-21 11:51:13 · answer #8 · answered by alientwilight21 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just go on...if you guys really love each other why bother...dont mind them..
2006-11-21 12:06:10 · answer #9 · answered by alexjem 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they probually care just to be nosey or they want to make fun of u so be careful wat u say..
2006-11-21 11:50:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋