this is the same question and i would like to add some more details..
i didnt cheat my gf, i never did because im a christian. she slept with this guy 3 times already, and i dont know if shes doing it again, even though i still love her i cant help but think that shes lying to me again, i dont know anymore what to think, or feel. maybe i was thinking that after all our times being together, and i really cherished those times. i dont know what to do. please i need your advise about this matter
2006-11-21 11:17:13 · 11 answers · asked by xhari_ng_sablayx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if i were u i would break up wit my girl because shes cheatin on me.
2006-11-21 11:22:31 · answer #1 · answered by Bob B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to do her like an Usher song and Let it Burn!! There are two kinds of love out there: Healthy and Unhealty. Healthy love comes when you are mutually in it to win it. Unhealthy love comes with abuse. Be it physical or mental. What you have is unhealthy love. You put yourself through misery to try to forge something that may not be there. Thats unhealthy. Love your woman to death if you want to.. Just do it from a distance with her. The trust factor has been broken and it may be hard but im pretty sure the momentary pain from the break up will be a lot more manageable than the pain you feel everytime she cheats on you. She may not know what she has now. But she will once she realizes that she cant play games with you anymore. Either way, breaking up is the best option.
2006-11-21 12:10:10 · answer #2 · answered by younggame01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a christian you are taught not to cheat or deceit, so then why would you want to put your beliefs aside for some human being?
Although you and your gf arent married this is still infidelity to the heart. Also, if she didnt repent after the first time of sleeping with him, what makes you think she wont continue to do it, she obviouly enjoyed having intimacy with him.
Can you think better with your heart or your head? The heart isnt created with problem solving skills, so really think about it from the outside looking in.
The first time she did it, shame on her... the second and third time SHAME ON YOU!!!!
2006-11-21 11:27:48 · answer #3 · answered by antz1230 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are indeed a Christian, you got no business wanting to be with this girl. If she don't respect you now, she never will. It takes two strong people to hold a relationship together. Heartbreak is a part of the game and it is a tough lesson. Find other things in your life to focus on (church, school, career, etcetera). That will help you move on. Be the kind of man that people look up to and that one special woman can't get enough of. Good luck. lol.
2006-11-21 11:29:45 · answer #4 · answered by hartovalion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like i have said it happened to me, we were on and off quite a bit then bang! Over, weeks of heart ache, her going off without a word, i asked her if she had been with another, she said no, she couldn't do that out of self respect/respect for me, we got back together then 3 weeks into our new relationship i found out that the first week into our break up she had, a drunken night, he lived miles away, someone she had been in contact with for a while, a friend, she called it a 20 min fumble, sex, then for the 3 weeks we were together still talking to him, him asking her to come up again, to do the things he had done before, i felt sick, dirty, the lies, dishonesty, now still together the trust has gone, i get the horrible feeling she might again, i even think i dont fancy her anymore, nasty situation and just knowing what to do, still, thats life and you make your bed.
2016-03-29 04:48:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it were me I would probably try to take a break from her. If she's really committed to you she will quit screwing around if she sees that you won't play the game. If you're too afraid you'll lose her, then the relationship isn't a very healthy one anyway. It sounds like you're being put through a lot of pain, so walking away couldn't be much worse. Sorry, it sucks.
2006-11-24 16:42:11 · answer #6 · answered by okarol 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That relationship is done an over. If she will cheat on you that many different times than she doesn't really care about you . You may wan too pray on it go to counseling an talk too god about it . But over all yes leave her
2006-11-21 11:47:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with her. For the part of you that still loves her, don't worry, hopefully you'll find someone new and whom you'll equally love. God bless.
2006-11-24 22:28:38 · answer #8 · answered by Clemence 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can still love someone and decide not to be with them. You can miss someone and know you can't be with them. You can have feelings for someone and know they are not right for you. End it for your own sake.
2006-11-21 11:22:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with someone. loving her is not worth the hurt and the pain. take care sweetie.
2006-11-21 11:26:05 · answer #10 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋