friend got some money when her mother died now she seems to think she is better then me what should i do?

Question

i have told her money wont last for ever she got mad and said im just mad cause she got money and i told her your mother had to die for you to get it now she wont even speak to me

Answer 1

That's too bad, sorry things had to go that way. I think your friend is having a hard time dealing with having money, and you are probably the lucky one for not having this particular problem. As for your friend, if she never calls you again she doesn't strike me as having valued you as a friend very much. Money can be an issue for a lot of people, especially married couples. If a relationship can't stand the test of money squabbles, it's not a very worthy relationship to begin with.

Answer 2

Move on. It shows how money changes people. If that's how she is, she is only a fair-weathered friend and not worth having and anything you say is not going change her. If you really feel you are right ( and I agree with you), know the convictions you have chosen to live by make you a fair and conscientious person.

Money is nice, but people and the relationships you have are more important. Money is a tool to use to buy things - it doesn't make you better, just allows you to buy more expensive things. A $300,000 Rolls Royce will break down just as a $20,000 VW Jetta will. But the Rolls will cost more to fix. And is a $100 steak better than the $15 one you can prepare at home? It's all an illusion perpetuated by advertising firms to sell products.

And I have been successful in my life and career, so money is just a benefit of the hard work and time I have put into it. I don't have to show off to impress people.

Answer 3

That was kind of harsh to throw her mothers death in her face. It is very hard when someone passes that is close to you especially immediate family. Grief takes many stages and sometimes its hard to see it when your on the outside. Give her time she has alot to deal with and the money really is not much of a compensation for the loss of her mother.
Go easy and try to understand its a difficult period.

Answer 4

She is hurting. So she is using the money as an excuse to feel better. Be a better friend to her and apologize for any remarks made about her mother. She needs you right now, more than you know.

Answer 5

You shouldn't worry at all she's just being selfish and mean. Hay if you want to be friends with her again i guess you should apologies even though you know you were right and you were just giving her advice. And if you don't want to apologies i think she'll recognize the you were just giving her advice and she'll talk to you again with out you saying sorry back to her or anything.

Answer 6

This is the truth: Don't talk to her anymore. Like they said "MONEY WILL CHANGE YOU".
When her money runs out and she has no mo friends maybe she'll come back to you. But, if i were you i'll tell her that she don't need to be my friend now cause she wasn't thinkin' bout you when she had a pocket full of money so don't try to talk to me now! And let her be on her BROKE, NO FRIEND AZZ!!

Answer 7

Maybe you should talk to her and tell her how you feel. She is probably just grieving in a bad way, money makes a lot of people feel better. Talking is good and don't be afraid to stand your ground, tell her what she's doing. She is grieving and probably doesn't realize she's being like that.

Answer 8

She's probably still grieving and never having money like that, can put a rise in the ego territory. Let her be, she will come around when she wants to.

Answer 9

SHould not have told her that last part......but in time she will learn money isn't everything who knows she might spend it all and then realize hey look i lost my friend and now i have no money.....

Answer 10

Get busy doing other things and drift off for a while. People handle grief in weird ways.