Plz help me?

Question

my husband of 2 years want to get a divorce!
i am so confused by this beacuse we have been together for 4 years now1
if anybidy has any advice plz help me because we have a baby on the way but i do not what that to be the only reason 4 him to say
:( help me plz



HAPPY THANKSGIVING

you see we have been having "problems" (i hope youknow what that means" since the pregnancy he thinks i just don't wwnt to give him the time!
i just really don't know what to do!

he's been staying at his sisters house!

i just hope him and her don't have a thing goin

sorry not his sis my sisters house

Answer 1

The question is too broad and has no details, Cannot give a good reply until you fill in the blanks.

Additional:
No I don't "know what that means" you need to explain EXACTLY what you mean or we cannot give good advice.

And the fact that he is staying with YOUR sister makes my brain scream. Why with YOUR sister? Why is YOUR sister not supporting you? Why is she helping him be a bad husband? This may hurt but are you sure he is not sleeping with your sister? It seems VERY unusual.

Answer 2

Get counseling A.S.A.P. find out where things went wrong, why is he leaving u after u getting pregnant, does he find u repulsive since u r now obviously getting bigger, what other problems r underlying that u r obviosly not talking about where do u come into the picture and what responsibilities r u owing up to. It takes to to tango and it seems he's tired for some reason. Where did u go wrong and what can u do to make it right? Meet on some common ground don't just give up and don't u let him just give up either, COMMUNICATE like u used to. Damn I can't believe what u wrote about him and his sister u r sick and it is u get some help quick u need it not him. I didn't read the whole story until after i scrolled down and saw ur added comments, man u r really sick.

Answer 3

Ah geez. Why does he want a divorce? Don't panic; call up some friends or family and get support and feedback from them. Being that people who are close to you know you and your husband, they might be able to offer good advice and insight. Don't go through this alone, talk to people. Whatever it is, it's not the end of the world; there's life after divorce, that's for certain. Good luck.

Answer 4

Do you know why he wants the divorce? That would be the first thing to find out. Men are usually more honest than women, so it shouldn't be that hard so long as you one, stay calm, and two, make sure he knows you aren't just trying to con him back into staying with you. So long as he thinks you're being honest, you can probably find out his reasons. After that you could talk your problems over (calmly), get marriage counselling, or something along those lines.

Answer 5

I'm so sorry to hear this,All i can say is that you need to take into account that he wants to divorce whilst you are pregnant and the stress of this is not good for you or the liitle one.That show he has no consideration,love or respect for both your feelings and health.If you are strong enough let him go through with it and then make sure you take him to the cleaners for child maintenance.You don't want someone like him in your life and he does not deserve you.

Answer 6

sometime you have to let them go holding on can cause him to cheat lie and just be completely in the way try talking to him see if there is anyway you can fix. that will make him change his mind leave the child out of it for now bring it in later explain to him y your confused see y he is wanting to leav in the first place maybe there is something that you can do but there aint your just goin to have to move on dont waste your life you only live once

Answer 7

After looking at your profile and the other questions you have asked...does it matter?....If you don't remember here is your previous questions:

I have a relationship with this guy...very distant?
but he lives in texas and i live in pa!
what can i do! we rilly love eachother but we never see eachother!
does ne body have ne advice?

We have been dating on and off since Jan.
I really love him!

I don't knwo how to ask this guy out and it is bugging me!?
we are total oppsites and i have no clue what to do i met him on myspace and he lives only 2 mi. from me

Stop wasting others time with Bull crap questions....but thanks for the points.

Answer 8

Honey, I know its hard but you dont want to be with someone who doesnt want to be with you. The way I see it is its his loss, not yours. Just focus on making the best life possible for you and your little one. There are tons of single parents out there and people make it every day. Good luck and God bless.

Answer 9

Wow, if he wants out, then out he should go. However, he has a big responsibility toward your baby. You seem to be young and can make it on your own. If my man doesn't want to stick around, the hell with him because he is not worthy of my love.
Happy Thanksgiving to you as well.

Answer 10

men are assholes. what reason does he want to leave you for? is he cheating? if so then you do not need him. try to get him to go to counseling or just set and talk about why he wants the divorce? i have been married twice. i left both of them because both of them cheated. try to find out why he wants the divorce. if he tries to divorce you fight it and tell the judge that you think that with counseling that you two can work it out. the judge will order you to go to counseling for 6 months to a year.