I hav3 this friend we stopped talking a long time ago she likes the same guy I do but I have a better chance should I ask him out or let my friend have himbecuz a lot of people say I'm mean to her wut should i do?
2006-11-21 10:57:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you really like him just ask him out but you will never be friends with your friend again and you might even gain an enemy.
2006-11-21 11:00:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
4get about the guy...
Nine times out of ten, u won't end up stayin' with this guy 4 a real long time ANYWAY, even if u DO get a chance 2 be with him. It'd be pretty dumb to give up a friend for somebody who's not worth it...I'm tellin u, boys will come and go but your friends will be there for life.
2006-11-21 11:00:36 · answer #2 · answered by Nikki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOOOOO DON"T! IF u just go out with this guy for probably like two or three months and then what u just broke your friendship over a guy you will be in a mess and who would have your back so don't do it it's not worth the risk.
2006-11-21 11:09:48 · answer #3 · answered by Sami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, Cookie, my suggestion is that you stop and think about whether or not you want to keep a friend. If you feel your friendship is worth giving up on the guy, do it...give it up. In my estimation, there hasn't been a male born who is worth losing a friendship over. Good luck however you choose. :)
2006-11-21 11:02:35 · answer #4 · answered by Peanut 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the risk of asking him out he might like u .Don't listen to what people say.
2006-11-21 11:06:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you stopped talking to your friend, does that still make them your friend? also if you are not really friends with her anymore then go after him, what do you have to lose? if you two are friends it could still be a good idea, it is really up to you.
2006-11-21 11:01:07 · answer #6 · answered by drunken_monkey1988 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well since you have a better chance, with him then you should try it out, if he doesnt like you then you should back out gracefully and let your friend have a chance with him .
2006-11-21 11:03:45 · answer #7 · answered by Nostalgia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never ever listen to the crowd, follow your own heart. I mean the dumbest thing to do is fight over a guy....
2006-11-21 11:01:31 · answer #8 · answered by ** WINGS ** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like him you should ask him out...she doesnt decide who you can go out with and who you can't its your decision you make it and if she has a problem...well tell her to just get over it.Best of Luck
2006-11-21 11:04:02 · answer #9 · answered by ashlee <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u like the guy go for it.. if u dont, dont just go for him to make ur x-friend jealous coz she likes him n u kno u can have him.
2006-11-21 11:01:50 · answer #10 · answered by tu_sweet189 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋