so i want to forget this certain person..and in order for me to do so i keep telling myself bad things about them..like "they are this.." "they are that.." 2 get them out of my mind even tho i really like them!! i wuz wondering by doing this constantly will i actually start 2 believe the bad things about this person so i can forget..or am i just going to drive myself insane?? helpp
2006-11-21 10:49:32 · 5 answers · asked by × 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Forcin' yourself 2 believe that this person is actually a bad person is really doing nothing but fooling yourself.
Everybody that we meet has some form of impact on our lives...this one particular "person" just had a very BIG influence on you. Of course, it's going to be hard to "get over them", but you have to come to an acceptance that it's over between the two of you. It'll be hard, but that's the only way you'll ever TRULEY move on.
2006-11-21 11:05:53 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will be better with time.... I am trying to forget somebody too and I was doing exactly the same thing like you do.... anyway I always finish thinking about the nice moments too. Good luck to you.
2006-11-21 19:00:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the best thing is to face the truth.he does not have to be bad to forget him.he can just be not the right for you.
2006-11-21 18:53:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, by doing that u r tricking youself.lol! just forget bout that person. for instance, date, date, date.
2006-11-21 18:58:56 · answer #4 · answered by Henry P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it will help. You must kill them. There is no other way. Or you could just let time pass. There is that.
2006-11-21 18:52:58 · answer #5 · answered by Chris D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋