done differently in your marriage?
2006-11-21 10:32:37 · 12 answers · asked by . 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Dont they always say money? Im not married and never will be...I have yet to "see" a marriage of a nonfiction nature that is something even close to what I would want in a marriage...sad but true...
2006-11-21 10:36:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
One of the most difficult things to deal with in marriage would have to be a lack of commnication. Specially if one mate doesn't have a problem at all talking but the other one does, it can make situations that come up hard to deal with. If that communication is not there between a husband and wife, there really won't be a strong relationship. We had a lot of friends over at the beginning stage of our marriage and we realize that we should have spent that time getting to know each other more. Now we have two children and it's really hard to get that privacy time in and just talk.
2006-11-21 10:41:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can name you the top 9 things that make or break a marriage, each of which require active participation by BOTH partners.
- Communication
- Compromise
- Communication
- Tolerance
- Communication
- Working at the relationship
- Communication
-Trust and mutual respect
- Communication
- Try to see the other persons perspective.
The one thing I always wish I did more of is communicate rather than getting ticked off about something. 99 times out of 100, how I interpretted a situation is not how it was meant.
Did I mention communication?
2006-11-22 01:52:50 · answer #3 · answered by Gonzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm happy somebody is involved by this, using fact it variety of feels that individuals throw in the towel of their marriages some distance too speedy now a days. I even have been married for a 12 months and a nil.5, or perhaps in spite of the undeniable fact that it is not an extremely long term, I even have found out plenty in this time. i think of it is common to have moments the place you assert to your self: Why in the worldwide did I marry this guy or woman? What grew to become into I questioning? i will admit this using fact I also have a feeling that many human beings pretend that they on no account had this concept. i think of it is common and it particularly is human nature. whilst i'm offended at my husband, I used to easily get offended at him immediately and grow to be protective with out questioning. Now, I even have found out that as quickly as I get offended, I tell him how i think, which of direction is on no account easy, yet it variety of feels to get plenty finished. i've got additionally found out that forgiveness is best. human beings like to hold onto issues, and all that this does is it builds up bitterness interior people who at last erupts between couples. If i'm not waiting to forgive my husband, I tell him. This seems to help using fact it opens up the door for extra verbal replace which in many circumstances gets to the basis of the issue. it extremely is a on no account ending dedication, and there is on no account a break from one among those extensive dedication. however the super factor approximately it extremely is that by way of all the hardships and the quarrels, you grow to be nearer and start to appreciate one yet another. with out any style of matters, there could on no account be any possibility for couples to advance, in spite of each little thing that's what it particularly is all approximately.
2016-12-29 07:39:28 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most difficult is my spouse doesnt talk much. Answers are usually uhuh and i dont know.
What I wish I could have is more conversation. About anything. We have lots in common even our work. Just not enough conversation.
2006-11-21 11:22:25 · answer #5 · answered by firefly06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking as someone who was never ever married (and very likely will never be), I would think the BIGGEST thing to have to deal with would be the household finances.
2006-11-21 10:57:52 · answer #6 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most difficult for me was finding out that there was no chemistry after I got married. also communication was lacking and no financial security.
2006-11-21 10:52:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most difficult- his controlling behavior
What I'd have done different- I'd have insisted on a pre-nup!!!
2006-11-21 12:06:58 · answer #8 · answered by upside down 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Telling my husband what I need. And realizing he actually can't give me that. It hurts him. And it hurts me more to know that I hurt him. A no win situation. Sucks to be cruel to be kind. And I know I am not kind.
2006-11-21 11:05:04 · answer #9 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
right now my husband is in prison for something tha was like wrong place wrong time type thing... and thatys hard to deal with.the one thing that i would do differently is nothing....
2006-11-21 10:40:03 · answer #10 · answered by juicy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋