My wife tells me that she has been having a mfm fantasy. So I played along and asked her who was involved in the fantasy. She told me that it involved me and a good friend of mine. He is a pretty hot guy, and very well endowed, which I am not. Should I be concern?
2006-11-21 09:55:49 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
cool say yes !
2006-11-21 10:00:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends if she has pretty much been a free spirit type individual since you have known her than this should not surprise you and for her it may be normal. I would be a bit concerned, because once you both try the open marriage aspect it can never go back to the close intimacy that you may currently have.
That type of lifestyle would take some pretty secure people, secure about your marriage and secure about your sexuality.
Some things are best left to fantasy, because the real thing can have repercussions for one or both of you.
You both have to talk this one out very deeply because it could end your marriage
2006-11-21 10:05:33 · answer #2 · answered by John E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woah....I have a hard time thinking this is a legit question because I have YET to meet a guy who will blatently admit to not being well endowed, regardless of his TRUE size! SO.... Just in case this is a real question. I wouldnt worry about her fantasy unless shes cheated on you in the past. I too have had dreams about my husbands co workers... Cant help it, It just happens.
2006-11-21 09:57:32 · answer #3 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First, this might nicely be a consumer-friendly woman fantasy. 2d, when you consider which you look insecure she probable does have an allure on your pal. 0.33, if she's conscious he's bigger than you (and could have made an attempt to be certain) she could get exhilaration from nicely endowed adult adult males which could be reason for extra venture...
2016-11-25 23:31:57 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. How would she know if he is well endowed or not without seeing him down there. Only need to worry if you let the fantasy happen.
2006-11-21 10:12:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should be concern, fantasy are fine to have, to dreamed about but not acting out on them> This will destroy your relationship with your wife and your good friend. Threesome needs to stay out of marriage .
2006-11-21 09:59:16 · answer #6 · answered by ourjacobdavid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No just take is as a fantasy but watch how she acts around him make sure she's just not trying get a 3-way on so she can cheat on you with permission
2006-11-21 11:19:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yikes! What happened to marriages that were about the couple and not another person. I would sit her down and talk to her about it and how you feel. If you feel as if it is a bad idea then tell her so! She should respect your feelings.
As for being concerned I would but I'm old fasioned.
2006-11-21 10:00:34 · answer #8 · answered by aleniasherbalist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately I think you should... And frankly I would not involve your couple in that sort of fantasy because you are going to feel like a fool !
2006-11-21 10:00:36 · answer #9 · answered by Mimi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's worse, doing it all together, or finding out that he doing her behind your back. There is no way to keep her to yourself if she wants to explore and experience the gifts life has to offer. Relax and enjoy. If things don't go your way in the end, well it was good while it lasted. Think of what you have enjoyed, not of what you might lose or lost.
2006-11-21 10:16:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you sure be concerned - how many ppl feel comfortable
enough to talk about their fantasies openly? Share a fantasy with her
instead!
2006-11-21 10:07:18 · answer #11 · answered by hia_svnoyi_woya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋