2006-11-21 09:34:02 · 7 answers · asked by ilovedemwhiteboys2006 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Tell him no.
Period. There are so many things missing in that equation. Tell him to date you for a couple years, support you through college, marry you, and then you could consider having a child together.
2006-11-21 09:51:06 · answer #1 · answered by Phoenix, Wise Guru 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of things you have to take into consideration before EVEN thinking about having a baby. First of all, you have only been dating 4 months, not long enough to know if he is dependable, respectful, responsible, or if you have a mutual understanding (maybe love?). Second of all, you are tooo young!!! I married when I was 18, I don't regret, but I did not get pregnant until i was 22 and we were both going to school and had a full time job. Enjoy your time together, have lots of great safe sex. Why don't you two go to a Planned Parenthood Clinic and borrow one of those lifelike dolls for about a week or so and then maybe he will change his mind. Babies are a great responsibility and a decision such as that should not be taken lightly. And last, why do you want? Don't give in just to please him, if he really cares about you he should understand and if he doesn't then he is not the guy for you. Give him the boot!
2006-11-21 10:09:23 · answer #2 · answered by shorty17_83 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a baby changes EVERYTHING! I hardly ever get out of my house. I am only 21.. your even younger than I am.. be 17. worry about being an adult later. your time will come. but this isnt it... a baby is a HUGE responsibility.. n heres some basic cost info.. diapers a month: $60 to $100 . formula/if not nursing : $ 160 month. clothes: about $100 to $200. bottles, $20 to $30 . baby wipes $40 to $60 . Baby's don't come cheap sweety. But they are wonderful when time is right.
2006-11-21 09:56:21 · answer #3 · answered by mercy me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him NO! that not only WOULD ruin your life but it would potently ruin his. 19 is too young to be a father and 17 Is WAY to young to be a mother. And you guys have only been dating for 4 months that is ridicules to have a child in that amount of time. I don’t know what this guy is thinking, tell him no. and if he leaves you because of it good ridden. You don’t need a guy like that anyhow.
2006-11-21 10:36:13 · answer #4 · answered by hexgoblindancer666 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are still a child and not emotionally able to take care of another human being full time. Your boyfriend clearly has no idea what he is asking you to do since he is so young as well. So what do you do? You say NO.
2006-11-21 09:53:04 · answer #5 · answered by hawaiijos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get away from him NOW! You are very young and 4 months is not long enough. This guy should not be pressuring you at this age. Are you even capable of supporting a baby? Is he? Please be smart!
2006-11-21 09:52:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't want to lecture you but do what you want not what he wants. i have been with my boyfriend for 3 yrs and i still thought thaat wasn't enough time but now i am 4 months preggers. you need to make sure of this person, he soundss a little obsessive
2006-11-21 10:38:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋