my best friend is being really weird lately...
it started when i got a boyfriend she started getting jealous everytime i would hang out with him, and she would make plans with me WAY in advance and then not say anything else about it untill it already passed (and i had forgotten) now, she seems mad if i make plans with ANYONE (especially my boyfriend) even if we didnt have plans first.. I am trying to be a good friend but i really dont know what to do..
2006-11-21 09:33:25 · 7 answers · asked by *Cole* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ive tried talking to her about it, but she avoids the subject and she is very passive aggressive about it
meaning- if i go out with someone else she will make me pay for it later by not talking to me or cancelling on me an hour before
2006-11-21 09:40:58 · update #1
Sounds like your not being a very good friend. You know boyfriends come and go but friends are here to stay. You need to pay more attention to your friends feelings. How about you make plans with her? or invite her along with you and your boyfriend? I'm positive she is jealous of all the time you spend with your bf. She probably feels neglected. If you want to keep your friend I suggest spending more time with her, and when your with her, DO NOT talk only about your boyfriend. Good Luck.
2006-11-21 09:45:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a plan to go out only with her. Have dinner. Drink some wine. But talk about this. It is common for women to react this way when a man creates a triangle where there used to only be a beautiful duet. Save this friendship by being honest with each other.
2006-11-21 09:38:25 · answer #2 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's probably only stressful and does not recognize what to assert to you on occasion. additionally, you're saying he's extraordinarily harmless, as you have been his first kiss. i think of you may desire to step it up and create some magic contained in the relationship, otherwise there is going to be no communique. stable success! ;-)
2016-10-04 05:31:01 · answer #3 · answered by matlock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That means she is jelly that you focus attention on your new boyfriend, I have the same proublem. So, just talk to her about it, and go from there.
2006-11-21 09:38:42 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he jsut jealous that all you just ignore her, jsut be yourself having fun
2006-11-21 09:41:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she\'s a little to much possesive...you should talk to her about this
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2006-11-21 09:37:16 · answer #6 · answered by john doe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. i guess she is in love with her
2006-11-21 09:36:45 · answer #7 · answered by BENDER IS THE BOMB!!! (Fav show) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋