and its very hard to see each other...and i probably get to see him maybe once a month if im lucky...it can be very hard cuz i get very impatient..we start arguing more than often and its like i feel like im not getting the attention i need or deserve...how do i approach this? without getting him upset cuz hes a very very very sensative person and takes everything really serious...breaking up with him is NOT an option i just want some relationship advice to make this long distance realationship ride smooth..and yes i know some people may say that most long distance realationships dont work out....but i really dont need to hear the negativity...thank you guys soooo much!!!
2006-11-21 09:31:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Why don't you move closer to him?? Or you guys can meet half way as often as you can. An hour is not considered 'long-distance'. Its only an hour. That is a short distance to see someone you love!
2006-11-21 09:39:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit him down and talk to him. If you cant even do that your in trouble. Don't get upset about the arguments. That happens in relationships because people have opinions. I know you said you don't want negativity so i want give you too much. But he should at least try to fit you in his schedule. One more thing I want to say. Make sure you are not in a controlling relationship. Both of you should have say so in it. If you want to see him he should make time and you should too. There are other fish in the sea but if he is the one(he will make time!)
2006-11-21 17:39:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in a similar situation, basically you just have to make it work. Call each other, write letters, and email each other. It may not be the equivalent of seeing him but at least you are still communicating. Communication is key in any relationship.
2006-11-21 17:39:36 · answer #3 · answered by mejenna892002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres not much that can be done write letters and emails and send text messages other than that when you two are together make the most of it,it will be hard and get harder but if inthe end the two of you wil be together it will all work out
2006-11-21 17:40:09 · answer #4 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to im discuss the situation and see what he says
2006-11-21 17:35:52 · answer #5 · answered by alkarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋