2006-11-21 09:27:14 · 17 answers · asked by someon 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sometimes friends really need the help or advice, and sometimes they just want to be left alone about it. Use your judgement. What is this person like, how serious is the problem?
2006-11-21 09:31:43 · answer #1 · answered by Dmitri 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't interfere but it's good to offer a shoulder to cry on and impartial advice. If you get involved in relationship problems though you have to be careful not alienate yourself by slagging of a partner that they get back or stay with who you think had wronged them.
2006-11-21 17:32:42 · answer #2 · answered by Daisy Chain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
partly it would depend on the problem and how good of friends you are. there is a saying about never getting in the way of your friend unless they are falling down (literally or symbolically). if you have real reason to be concerned, being it is a serious problem that they need direction talk to them honestly and openly. but you can't really tell them what to do or make them do it how you feel is right (you probably would not want them to do that do you, right?). be there for them but it is their decision of what to do.
2006-11-21 17:51:12 · answer #3 · answered by falling leaves 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It never hurts to give them some advice. If they are a true friend, they should listen to what you have to say. It doesn't mean they have to accept your advice but at least you spoke up. That's what being a friend is. GO ON, SPEAK UP! What you have to say, may be the answer or suggestion they are looking for.
2006-11-21 17:32:48 · answer #4 · answered by LIL' K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what the problem is.If d problem is telling on him/her,try to see if you can talk to him/her.For you to know what it is but if its sth you know dat if you do help wont hurt your friend then go ahead but if its sth dat wud hurt ur friend then dont help.Let ur friend handle it all you need do is be there whenevr your friend needs a shoulder to lean on.
2006-11-21 17:52:56 · answer #5 · answered by Missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if there is some kind of abuse involved, then get the police. otherwise give objective not emotional or opionated advice and let her know that whatever she chooses you will still be there for her. people have to learn for themselves and sometimes it's hard to see people go through stuff but that is life.
2006-11-21 17:31:40 · answer #6 · answered by Nadia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on the circustances. Is it going to hurt any one, is it going to cost alot of money? It is going to caused the relationshp with your friends to end. Is your freind causing harm to him/herself or to others? Is it going to mess up your own persnal relationship that you want to keep? Hope this helps.
2006-11-21 17:33:22 · answer #7 · answered by ourjacobdavid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes if they really need it if they dont then leave it alone and maybe they will figure it out on there own if not they will ask you so i guess it dosent really matter what you do because they know that they can always depend on you for help
2006-11-21 17:33:16 · answer #8 · answered by kayia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i dont think you need to intrfere with your friends problems because if something goes wrong then youll either be the cause of it or youll be in the middle of it
2006-11-21 17:31:03 · answer #9 · answered by Jasmine chandler 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes it is and sometimes it isnt. it depends what the problem is exactly. if its a fight, leave them alone and let them work it out on thier own. because you dont want them to get mad at you also.
2006-11-21 17:30:17 · answer #10 · answered by Chanea S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋