2006-11-21 09:15:59 · 12 answers · asked by marshay p 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
I honestly think most are ignored at home, and they feel a little baby will make them feel important. Parents really need to talk to their children and spend time with them.
2006-11-21 09:49:10 · answer #1 · answered by Urchin 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i got pregnant at 18 is that young?? bc i am a far better mother then most i meet. i did not do it because i was not loved or because i thought babies are cute and didn't know what was involved my birthcontrol did not work anti biotics messed it up not only can they make your birthcontrol not effective after you take them but they can mess up the whole time during the month even before you took them and i am super fertile. i was with my love and wanted to keep the baby what should i have done had an abortion?? i love my son he is my life he is the smartest best behaved little boy i know his age i do not going out and party or drink i give him whole meals lot of fruits and veggies i don't leave him with his grandparents or a babysitter i am actually a stay at home mother i think its rude that you assume all young mothers are bad ones my husband and i are still together not all older mother do these things so why am i catagorized
PS i do not need your advice if i am out at the mall and my son whines i know why and i know what to do keep your noses out no one wants your opinion so don't give it unless we ask
2006-11-21 18:04:26 · answer #2 · answered by momma 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It isn't so much that they "like to." Sometimes things happen. I got pregnant when I was 16. I was being as responsible as I could have been in regaurds to birth control. I am an excellent mother and it sickens me the stigma young mothers receive. I finished school, worked, and have never depended on anybody for the care of my child. Not all young girls are bad mothers, just like not all older women are good mothers. I learned a lesson and abstained until marriage after my daughter was born. I found out after getting pregnant again (I'm married and 20 now) that my body rejects certain hormonal birth control (hence baby #2). I was not a "slut," I was young and naive. I just ask please, keep your judgements to yourself when you see a young, pregnant mother. He that judgeth shall be judged.....
2006-11-21 17:36:33 · answer #3 · answered by tonetones03 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
well there is no real answer to ur question but the most common answer would be is that the younger the better becuz u can have them all right after another this way when they get older u are still young in age i mean im 21 and i have 2 kids, and no can believe it cuz im young and they look like my siblings i prefer it this way cuz its nicer and healthier and i can stay young and live my life later on longer with my hubby.
2006-11-21 18:52:50 · answer #4 · answered by susu 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
most of them are having sex at too young of ages and become pregnant wether they want to or not. they have that itch to see what sex is like them bam!! they are pregnant. they just don't understand that having babies are expensive and lots of work. You have to get up two three times a night maybe even more, go to the clinic for check ups, food, diapers, on to of that a job, transportation, housing, clothing, hygiene, and so much more. they think its just hugs and kisses and then everything is fine.
2006-11-21 19:15:34 · answer #5 · answered by Linda 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are either uninformed or just don't care about getting STD's/ Pregnant. Like those STUPID teens on Maury....If I could give them my real kids for a week, not a few hours...they would change thier minds..GUARENTEED!!! I have a 8 week old and a 29 month old and I am 24 and its hard for me let alone a 15 year old who cant even get a job yet. They should be thrown in Juvy until they are 18 and thier parents dont have to take responsibility.
Sorry you just hit a soft spot so i had to vent :)
2006-11-21 17:26:33 · answer #6 · answered by mommy of 3 boys 3 · 3⤊ 3⤋
a lot of you are so stupid 2 give your dumb opinions saying oh we think their cute... no... i am 17 and am pregnant. i am graduating school and working and going 2 be tyhe best mother i cqan be no matter what! your all stupid who degrade teen mothers. it happened.. what would you like us 2 do? if you believe in abortion ur discusting.
2006-11-21 20:33:38 · answer #7 · answered by Jessica R 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why would you ake that maybe cause they don't have anything else to do or it was a mistake.i'm a young teen and i'm haveing a baby
2006-11-21 18:09:08 · answer #8 · answered by coutrygurl010 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
because the recovery takes less time
because we can be "hip" and know everything that's going on in today's society
because we can keep up with them alot easier
because we want to be in their lives for as long as we can
2006-11-21 17:58:51 · answer #9 · answered by CMA 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Because they think babies are cute, and do not realize how much work is in raising a child.
2006-11-21 17:23:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋