What would you do in this situation?

Question

OK first thing is first I was living with my father for about 3 months after completeing the Job Corps program. My father has basicually mental and physically abused me my entire life. One day I was fixing some chicken and french fries and the grease make a little popping noise and it woke my father up he than got mad and threw a coffee cup at me striking me in the head which caused a cut that had to be closed up by staples. I went down to the police station right after it happened and told them and of course they put him in jail. Anyways I was going to College at the time which I am still going and I now am homeless living in my car. I went to my grandmas which is my dads mother which she lives in Owensboro, Ky and asked her and see if I could stay with her for awhile until I got back on my feet and she basicually said no. She said that she was so set in her ways that she just could'nt and my Uncle and Aunt was sitting there to and they didnt help either I believe they are mad at me

Additional Details

27 minutes ago
because I called the law on my dad which is my grandmas son, uncles borther and aunts brother, I have been living in my car off and on for about 3 months. Churches have been helping me out alittle which I am greatful for but they put me in a hotel for one night and something to eat for a night and of course I am greatful. Well than I started to go on a drinking benge and got a P.I. in Owensboro, Ky and thats a fine I have to pay and then about a week later I went to Evansville In, and was pissing out in the parking lot thought no one was watching and the cops roll up and take me to jail for public nudity and a P.I. stayed in jail for about 5 hours and they let me out. I know you are woundering how I got the money to drink and I got it from raking leaves. Then I went to the police station a couple days later to get a voucher to get a place to stay and to eat and gave them my ID they ran my name and it said I had a suspended licence in Indiana but I was in kentucky and my kentuckys is ok

13 minutes ago
My mom lives with my father and the college that Iam attending does not have housing because it is a Community College

Answer 1

Geez, talk about all messed up.

You need to find a girl that likes you and have her clean you up and give you a place to live. Be her boy toy or something like that. Ask her to help you get a real job, and do the job too. Keep your nose clean. Things might pick up tremendously after that.

Otherwise keep your head up and go for a day labor job. Also call and get your license straightened out. Rent a PO box for a year and do all your mail through that.

If you are REALLY motivated, become a trucker. Go to trucking school to get your truck license. They will pay for your room and board and even finance your first truck for you.

Answer 2

You were in the right to repot your dad to the cops. My dad used to abuse me so I know what you are going threw: How family members always turn the other way and pretent it never happens or that you shouldn't have done this or that. Just hang in there, and try to stay out of trouble. Even if you are going to a community college ask your profs or a counseler, they could help you get a place or a stedy job. But either way you are out of that place and that is the best thing in my opinion

Answer 3

Think of who else you know who might help, old friends, great aunts, great uncles, whoever, doesn't hurt to ask but don't pressure anyone if they say no.

Then, DON'T DRINK at least till you have someplace to stay. Take whatever work you can get, see if you can get a room with other people to start. Good luck. Go to a church or a shelter if you have to.

If you have to be homeless, maybe a warm place is best.

Answer 4

It sounds like you are too old to be living with any relatives, and they seem to be somewhat self-focused right now. Take this as a golden opportunity to break away and see what opportunitys await you. You seem to lack focus and direction. My suggestion is to go a little deeper with the Churches. Don't approach them for the purposes of just a "hand-out", but more of a member of their flock that needs assistance, to get back on his feet. Find a Church that you feel comfortable with, and you like their message and people. See if you can get employment working for them, showing your character and willingness to better your situation. Life is hard, but harder without family. And right now, your family is not directly helping you, or not willing to at this time. There seems to be some anger issues that are present in your family, which makes proper decisions less clear for you. See if any of the advisors at the college can offer any assistance. Perhaps they have an "Access" office that is there to help student with special needs (learning disabilitys, physical disabilities, non-English speaking students, and others all use their service). The college has contacts of employment, housing references and multiple other resources to help guide you along the right path.

You need people who can mentor you along the right roads in life. Mentors with your education, your Spiritual life, your housing and transportation needs and such. The help is out there, you just need to get in touch with someone who knows what to do.
Good luck! Hang in there.

PS - next time you have to relieve yourself, just carry a throw away cup in your car, so that when nature calls, you can do it in the privacy of your vehicle, then just pour it out at the next bush, and toss the cup. No indecent exposure this way.

Answer 5

you should live with your other grandma. from your mom's side. or you could live with an other family member. if they live far away, move and transfer colleges. you could always live with a friend if you have any

Answer 6

God knows.