My husband has a friend that is a girl that he was always doing things for, I suspected a relationship, but had no proof. There was a big blow up, and we are working on things, and he says he no longer talks to her. How do I assure that without being accusatory?
2006-11-21 09:07:40 · 13 answers · asked by elfkin, attention whore 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you think your man is messing around, he is! Woman's intuition is right, I don't care what anybody says! You know your man, you are gonna have to snoop! This is the only way to get piece of mine! Whatever you find, confront him and wait for a reaction, if he overreacts, something fishy is going on! You gotta dig up the facts, don't put yourself through this stress wandering, if he is worth it, you will do this.
2006-11-21 09:21:30 · answer #1 · answered by Tristen T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Become her best friend to and help her husband help her...if nothings going on it will just be akward at first (you know, the spouse bullying in on the friend territory - it happens with male friends too). If they are lovers it will come to light VERY quickly.
You need to find out.
2006-11-21 17:12:38 · answer #2 · answered by Lotus Phoenix 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just like females have best friends in females we also can have best friends in males and the same goes for guys only when they have a best friend female the relationship will continue even after they get married there best friends why take that relationship away from them,of course each sided partner would be jelouse but they were friends prior to the marriage goes both ways as difficult as it is you knew this before you married him
2006-11-21 17:14:42 · answer #3 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Trust him because the truth always finds a way out no matter what.
2006-11-21 17:11:28 · answer #4 · answered by vato 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well you're gonna have to trust him, and it's gonna take a long time to trust him again. he is going to have to understand that he violated that trust and if you do ask he shouldn't get defensive or mad at you. he's the one who created that little mess, not you.
2006-11-21 17:26:36 · answer #5 · answered by jdchick48 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is where your marriage vows come in.."to trust". He chose YOU to marry, not his good friend. Good luck.
2006-11-21 17:16:08 · answer #6 · answered by 2Bme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a d i c k h e a d. He should not have even put you two in this situation. I give him an "F" in his marriage.
2006-11-21 17:13:40 · answer #7 · answered by aubreytaegan 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YOU CAN CHECK OUT AND SEE IF THEY'RE SEEING EACH OTHER. I KNOW I LEFT PLENTY OF THINGS FOR MY EX TO FIND BUT HE NEVER LOOKED. BEEN THERE.
2006-11-21 17:14:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him it is either her or you, and let him know you are serious, he cannot have his cake and eat it to.
2006-11-21 17:22:34 · answer #9 · answered by sidekick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aside from taking his word for it - you can't.
2006-11-21 17:10:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋