i screwed up my all important chem exam, people just consider me a piece of ****( i m not there like feeling they give), and my ex gf is acting strange to get back to me (and i am not interested in her)
and the girl i m interested in considers me an idiot??
Why am i here , i cant be good in anything,, i m just a looser?
help meplease!!!!
2006-11-21 08:28:31 · 25 answers · asked by metallixan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
research abraham lincolns career record for won/lost elections...
i might be wrong, but i think he lost every one until he made president
2006-11-21 17:35:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude-we all have our down days. Talk to someone, anyone, a friend or family. Look, right now, your chem exam must seem critical but there must be something you do to help it. It's not the END of the world. And just because of that doesn't mean your a piece of (you know), and ignore you ex girlfriend. You're not interested in her so forget it. And the girl you're interested in- what are you waiting for? Show you really aren't the idiot. You aren't a loser. You are here because you have a life. Live it to the fullest. I believe in you. This will all pass through soon.
2006-11-21 08:33:42 · answer #2 · answered by Emirii 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if the girl that u are interested in considers you an idiot, disprove her opinion, if your ex wants to get back together tell her no subtly, and STUDY for God's sake. you are not going to get anywhere by sulking. make some friends and find something that you are good at. this isn't much to do, and you'll be a loser if you believe yourself to be one, so have a positive attiude. also, prove to people that you are not "a piece of ****". i think you could be a great person to know (quoting barney) "if you just believe in yourself". try your best and that's the most you can do. also, ask for help if you need it. i don't mean to sound like a teacher, but i find i have that effect on people sometimes, sorry, and Good Luck!
2006-11-21 10:03:11 · answer #3 · answered by guess2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be so hard on yourself. Screwing up an exam doesn't make you a loser. You are good at lots of things. You are valuable. More than that - you're unique. Have a good cry (so nice to find a male who can admit they need to) and then pick yourself up and start again. Stick around people who make you feel good, not those who drag you down.
2006-11-21 08:38:08 · answer #4 · answered by Older&Wiser 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no you are just going through a bad patch. If you can think of a time you have felt like this before and know that eventually it will pass then take comfort from that. Work on your self esteem in the meantime as you are just as important and worthy as anyone else, never mind the girls, the right person for you will appreciate you for all your good and bad points. take care
2006-11-21 08:33:03 · answer #5 · answered by Loobyloo 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you're going through a bad patch, calm down, it will pass. Everyone goes through these. You sound stressed, go for a walk or something, or do something healthy to make you feel better, like put on a fave film or CD and dance around to it. And don't worry too much about what people think about you, it's what the people who you CARE about think of your that matters. As for the girl you like, well, she'll come around ...
2006-11-22 00:04:12 · answer #6 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill, Breathe, and Slow Down. Chem exam- Try harder!!! Other people- Who Cares what they think, you could be perfect and they would still have something bad to say. Ex- tell her hit the road. Girl u like- be yourself if it's meant to be it will happen.
2006-11-21 09:48:04 · answer #7 · answered by Jeanie N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I rushed with the learners for a fraternity. Already a 12 months older, i did not get a bid to the Fraternity i needed or the different fraternity...felt somewhat worthless for a lengthy time period yet helped to inspire me. substitute my look on my life direction. Do what i want to do with my life, and do not care about communities. the international is at my finger recommendations and that i have never went exploring because i have been searching for human beings to percentage it with. properly, its obtrusive no human being needs to spend it with me, so i'm gonna flow see the international in the previous i'm too previous to be apologetic about no longer doing so
2016-10-16 09:59:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh for goodness sake snap out of the self-pity. Ok so you flunked an exam, there's plenty of opportunity to re-sit, if not at school then at a further education college. If you're not interested in this girl why should the way she behaves bother you. Just avoid her. I'm not surprised the girl you like thinks your an idiot - stop behaving like one, get your life in order and I'm sure she'll think you're fantastic. I don't mean to sound harsh but you really need to SNAP OUT OF IT.
2006-11-21 08:40:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have a good howl, wallow for a bit.....let it all out then pick yourself up.....and you can and go forward from this. You are not the failure you believe you may have taken a diversion in to an area that is not right for you......so take a different path .....you are no failure......you have strengths and weakness the same as everyone else.......including those who may make you feel like.....right now.
2006-11-23 22:37:13 · answer #10 · answered by eagledreams 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
crying is a gift, it helps to clear the soul..let it flow
and about the rest.. life is full of ups and downs, thats what makes us who we are, and what doesn't kill u innly makes u stronger
sounds like a load of clichés but believe me, i'm speaking from experience..
people react to the way we portray ourselves, if u feel crap then thats what u are showing others and thats the way they will react to u
u need to work on your self esteem, look at ur positives and work on ur negatives.. and after every downer there's a high just around the corner.
if we were never sad we wouldn't know what happiness was!
2006-11-21 08:34:52 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋