I broke up with my boyfriend
Were 15/16
and he is very touchy feely, that was fine with me for a while but i started to feel like he was trying to pressuring me into haveing sex with him and I will Not become a teenage mother...
That was are only probelm...well other then my best friend not likeing him.
Did i do the right thing or was it stupid?
2006-11-21 08:26:25 · 22 answers · asked by ? 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Girlfriend. Do not let anyone pressure you into having sex when you are not ready and anyway 15 and 16 is still too young for that. You did the right thing. If you do not want to be touched or have sex then it's your body and your choice. Just say no and if it was to happen, then it's classified as rape. He obviously did not care about you if he doesn't care about how you feel about sex. Good job. Very proud of you!!!!
2006-11-21 08:30:40 · answer #1 · answered by KBILLIOT22 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋
If he wont wait then hes not worth it and all it shows is he has no respect for you. Only have sex when you are ready and not before or youl regret it. Virginity is a sacred thing and you cant lose it twice , lose it with the right person that will treat you right
2006-11-21 08:44:26 · answer #2 · answered by Suzie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sure did, Way to go Girl! Of course youre going to feel bad, not giving him what he wanted, but you played it smart, what most girls sadly dont do, or wont. It your body, you can say no Sex whenever you want. Never feel pressured to say No. You want the best for your future children. I respect you for that. What a lesson to read and see that it can be done. Your children will thank you for it, and your girls will see your example and say no when the same situation arrises. :-)
2006-11-21 09:00:19 · answer #3 · answered by Such A Chicka 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You definitely did the right thing. You're not ready for a relationship to progress to the "next level" - in this case, sex - and good for you for standing up for yourself and not allowing him to pressure you into anything.
2006-11-21 08:40:01 · answer #4 · answered by eurekablyth 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
don't ever let anyone pressure you into anything hunnie!! if you were not comfortable about the situation you definetley did the right thing! never let a man make you feel pressured about sex! you will know when your ready!
2006-11-21 12:49:21 · answer #5 · answered by Jessica R 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u did the right thing.trust me u DO NOT want 2 be a teen mother,just like u said.just keep doing what u doing.plus 1 day u'll find another guy.
2006-11-21 08:38:32 · answer #6 · answered by betty boop 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best thing my girlfriend in highschool ever did to me was say no. It aint gonna kill him to not get sex, and it will screw up your life to get a baby. Tell him to find an alternative method of making himself happy. aka masterbation.
2006-11-21 14:14:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He tried to push you over your limits. You have your values, and don't ever let anyone pressure you to change your values. I know you did the right thing. Don't feel bad, you'll get over it!\
P.S. Your friend is smart. Listen to her!
2006-11-21 08:32:17 · answer #8 · answered by tubachick5490 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are not stupid, you did the right thing. You are smart for not letting him pressure you into something you didn't want to do.
2006-11-21 08:31:13 · answer #9 · answered by Sakora 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing. I put it like this, if that guy couldn't wait, you'll find one who will. There are more important things in life besides sex.
2006-11-21 08:44:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋