One of my guy friends is really bugging me. He keeps on saying that I like a guy when I have told him I don't. Last class, he kept on repeating this and embarrassing me so I didn't talk to him. Today I didn't really talk to him but I don't think he noticed because we don't have too many classes together. He was bugging me about other things on MSN today though. I really want to show him that I will not take anymore of his tormenting. I have class with him tomorrow. How should I behave? He needs to know that his actions are unacceptable!!!
2006-11-21 07:53:55 · 11 answers · asked by cinemaluvr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Be up front and serious with him. Tell him if he doesn't knock it off you will never be his friend again. Do it in private, don't make it a shouting match. If he doesn't take you seriously, start doing to him what he is doing to you. Start acting like he likes the ugliest slut in the school and embarrass him really bad about it. He will get the point.
2006-11-21 07:58:28 · answer #1 · answered by toothfairy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost...I think your friend has a serious crush on you. And his insecurities about you liking guys other than him are what's causing this. So..that's something to think about in your future dealings with him. What to do about how he is behaving...I think you should talk to him.Make it clear that you are getting angry..that you are not amused at all...and that he is in danger of ruining your friendship. Tell him that the way he is acting doesn't make him seem like a friend at all...but a taunting playground bully. Hopefully talking it out will resolve the situation. Good Luck!
2006-11-21 16:11:06 · answer #2 · answered by silentscreamer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start a rumour about him and the most unpopular girl in your class?
Or about him and another guy?
Say to him, look I know you keep going on that I like (whatever the name is) but I think you're just making a big thing of this because actually YOU are the one with the big crush and not me!
2006-11-21 15:58:18 · answer #3 · answered by Kate J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think your guy friend likes you more than a friend and is tormenting you about this guy because hes a little jealous. Even if you dont like him... somewhere along the line this guy got the idea that you do and its driving him nuts. Good luck
2006-11-21 16:04:00 · answer #4 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell the teacher or go to the principal because that is considered harrassment and to my knowledge that is not allowed in school!! You claim he is your friend, but if he's doing this kind of crap, does he really seem like a friend to you????? A friend wouldn't harrass you about it, especially after the fact you said no! They should accept that as the truth and drop it!! Good Luck!!
2006-11-21 15:58:11 · answer #5 · answered by mccamel1666 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is worreid that you don't like him, so he keeps saying you like some other guy.
Just tell firmly tell him that you are NOT seeing another guy, and you like HIM not anyone else, but you won't put up with him complaining all the time, or then you will go find a new guy.
2006-11-21 15:57:38 · answer #6 · answered by Alyssa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He claims that he loves you but in fact he is doing harassment and disturbing you in your studies I think one who claims that he loves you shoud try to make you calm and should help you in a way by which you feel secure and the same thing you tell him that if you love me and want to be with me dont make me uneasy and dont do the talks or actions whic i dont like.
2006-11-21 16:34:18 · answer #7 · answered by creed 1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you say and do is in your control how he acts is in his control, so my friend do not permit him to act toward you in this way , the more you respond to his attitude and his behaviour, the more he will enjoy the tormenting it is a sign of abuse as you said it is not acceptable so tell him
2006-11-21 16:01:57 · answer #8 · answered by michele d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you tell him, clearly, that you don't appreciate his remarks. Then drop it. Ignore him completely if he continues. This kind of person likes to push other peoples buttons so that they can feel powerful. Don't give your power away to this loser.
2006-11-21 16:02:54 · answer #9 · answered by badlass7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him... have no conversations with him at all.
2006-11-21 15:57:36 · answer #10 · answered by shughes2000_2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋