I couldn't spot a potential date to save my life, and even when I know i'm too shy and often miss a lot of hints. Bacically, I want to know how to cort other men. And please be civil, i'm a bit of a prude.
2006-11-21 07:45:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
dont worry...gaydar is something that you could be really good at...or need work on....I came out 5 yrs ago and my gaydar is still bad...keep working on it and eventually youll find someone...good luck
2006-11-21 07:48:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
I don't think you're being prudish at all, you are simply discreet, not a failing in my book.
I must tell, that your approach to asking this question may in fact hold the key to your answer. Consider that you were self deprecating in asking the question, always a good sign as it shows a certain charm. Secondly, being shy is something I can relate to, I was once quite shy but realized that it could be turned to a plus. Shyness can be controlled but never really overcome. As for the hints comment, that I'm afraid is something that requires practise, if you have a friend who is more attune to the game, perhaps they may be able to give you more hands on training so to speak. As for courting, which by the way I think is quite gentlemanly, I would say that you need only be yourself, the very respectful, discreet and quite amiable man who is asking this question.
2006-11-21 08:06:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You should try to seek out other men who share the same interests as you do. I know that it sounds simple, but sometimes the best answers are. If you are successful, you will find at the very least some interesting conversation. Happy hunting...
2006-11-21 08:17:55 · answer #3 · answered by dcg42bowler 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Try a gay bar or something. You'll have a better chance of randomly finding a gay person there, even with a broken gaydar.
(And just for calibration: No, I'm not gay.)
2006-11-21 07:49:48 · answer #4 · answered by nondescript 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Maybe being a prude is the problem, relax....
Best of wishes to you.
2006-11-21 07:52:30 · answer #5 · answered by eyes_of_iceblue 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ahhh, another of my type. start using eye contact. soon you will have body contact. very rewarding.
2006-11-21 07:53:32 · answer #6 · answered by shyboy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Men who are vain to the point of Diva perfection are gay. Men who are more laid back and less wound up like me are straight.
2006-11-21 07:49:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 6⤋
I also have no gaydar so it seems.
2006-11-21 07:48:27 · answer #8 · answered by Rainbow Brite 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Maybe your broken.
2006-11-21 07:48:19 · answer #9 · answered by Lotus Phoenix 6 · 0⤊ 5⤋