2006-11-21 07:30:14 · 20 answers · asked by amarie5137 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i blame it on there parents when kids first go to school they tell there kids dont let no one play or touch there toy and they go bragging about how great there toy is or whatever they have and say stuff like u cant touch it my mom said so
and it just gets worse and worse as time goes on
these are the same spoiled brats that end up being the popular kids in school along with huge ego's and they get extremly jealous if they think anyone else has it better then them people like them love misery
there happy knowing they can bring misery to them by ruining there day
its hard to just ignore them but just dont pay attention to them
who cares what they say
when did what they think ever count
2006-11-21 07:37:30 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥girl♥♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because of their own pain. Believe it or not, most people in pain that strike out are very weak and afraid even though they seem quite the opposite. Usually, they sense some strength in a person, and feel lessened by it. They are sometimes not really that mean, they are usually afraid to feel,and therefore keep every caring person at a distance. It matters little to them of the price all pay because of it. I don't mean to belittle their psychological make-up, but I do know sometimes they who need it most, are the hardest to love. I find just asking the particular person the exact question you have pondered, fills in many gaps. All are loveable at a soul level. Just as you are.
Love, Sha
2006-11-21 16:01:22 · answer #2 · answered by Sha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes they come from a long line of mean people. They just don't know how not to be mean.
Or they are stupid.
Hang in there. You should never let others define you. You get to define yourself.
2006-11-21 15:33:17 · answer #3 · answered by slipstreamer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people just find pleasure in hurting others. Their time usually comes soon enough. You just make sure you never intentionally hurt someone. Unless its in the act of speaking the truth and even then you can break it gently. Unless they really had it coming
2006-11-21 15:57:26 · answer #4 · answered by Carrie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
people are mean because they feel bad at that moment and get annoyed easily, thus been mean to others.
you just have to catch them on their good days. ;)
i'm sure you have been mean from time to time. you know, when you are annoyed.
just forgive the people who were mean to you.
the important thing is that you are a nice person and nice to them. only that way you won't feel so bad.
2006-11-21 15:42:28 · answer #5 · answered by Maré P 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Two predomentant reasons:
1: Lack of anything better/constructive to do
2: Insecurities about themselves.
2006-11-21 15:35:00 · answer #6 · answered by DEATH 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PPL ARE JUST MEAN NOW DAYS, I ACTUALY BELIVE PPL HAVE EVOLVED TO BE MEAN, ITS LIKE THIS, KIDS USED TO RESPECT THIER PARENTS, THEN THE PARENTS GET LAZY AS FAR AS PUNISHING THEM, SO THEY GET AWAY WITH BEING LITTLE BRATS, AND SO PPL GROW UP TO BE MEAN.NO ONE WAS AS MEAN AS THEY ARE NOW BACK IN THE EARLY 1900S. BUT I WILL SAY THIS. OBVIOUSLY YOU ARE WRITING THIS BECAUSE SOMEONE DID SOMETHING MEAN TO YOU. SO DONT FEEL SO BAD, MEAN STUFF HAPPENS TO EVERYONE, SO I AM SORRY.
2006-11-21 15:35:22 · answer #7 · answered by yfz450chuck 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because truth hurts. If they say something right, and you get hurt, well guess what, YOU CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTH.
But, if they ARE mean and stupid, then they're ignorant.
2006-11-21 15:33:11 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they are miserable with life and aren't doing anything positive so they like to rain on everyone else's parade......
2006-11-21 15:32:48 · answer #9 · answered by smartiebc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unhappy spirits create anger and hostility, they cant truly love themselves so they lash out at others as a way of making themselves feel better.
2006-11-21 15:40:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋