For the past month i have been thinging about my self and i was wondering if this thing is natural...i think it is but i have been watching the news and stuff.....i belive it is beacuse i liked guys sence i was only 9...i never liked the oppaset sex like my dad always says it the natural thing...he dont know about me....but if you could help answer this plz do....no religous comments plz
2006-11-21 07:19:44 · 13 answers · asked by nestgome 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
oh and i am only 15
2006-11-21 07:21:09 · update #1
Prefectly natural. How can some one tell you what is natural. Riding a bike comes naturaly to some but not every one. To me being gay is the same thing. It may not be natural to the next person but thats not you.
2006-11-21 07:31:47 · answer #1 · answered by Pumpkin 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋
It's no more natural than any other sexuality.
Natural just means whether it occurs in nature, and there are animals who engage in homosexual behavior, so yes, homosexuality is natural, as is heterosexuality, and even bisexuality. That's all you're asking.
Now, a lot of people will determine something's 'naturalness' by means of whether it continues the species- can it provide procreation? Well, then homosexuality, by that definition, isn't natural, but I ask- what's so great about naturalness? Don't we live in a fantastic society of HUMAN inventions that allow us to live our lives better than naked in caves trying to survive against harsh elements? We've made it so that gay men and lesbians can procreate by artificial means- something not "natural" but certainly a wonderful thing for all involved- the 'parents', the child, and society at large.
Perhaps it is better to ask what is good and right, instead of what is natural. (I believe that being gay is right, just as any sexual orientation is).
2006-11-21 19:13:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, it is natural. If you think you liking guys since 9 is weird, try having your parents tell you they knew you were gay since you were 3. That's a true story...about me. So yes, it is natural. Some people do learn it...but for the most part, yes, it's completely natural. Just think about what you're doing before you come out, okay? It's a very big step and there is a lot of backlash, so just make sure you're sure, okay? I don't want you getting hurt because of this.
2006-11-21 08:35:12 · answer #3 · answered by Richard B 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Being bi comes naturally to me, so I can assume it's the same for gays. I've been thinking about guys and girls since I was about ten, I was an early bloomer.
2006-11-21 11:58:29 · answer #4 · answered by Rageling 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it's natural to some, not to others. Everyone is different. Human sexuality is a wide spectrum. No one is 100% anything.
2006-11-21 07:23:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It comes natural. Good Luck.
2006-11-21 07:22:29 · answer #6 · answered by Rainbow Brite 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sorry, but I'm not believing that you "liked" guys ever since you were 9 (since most straight guys don't like girls until they hit about 12ish). If you ask me, I think you're too young to consider something as big as you coming out as a homosexual. I don't know anything about your love life with guys OR girls, but you want to take your time before coming to a decision. If anything, with all the "news and stuff" that you're watching, you're probably seeing how most gays try to use the arguement that being gay IS natural, so you're being lead into thinking along similar lines of "Natural, huh? I wonder if I might be gay too since it's a natural occurance... I think I'd better experiment with guys just to find out." If you decide to go along with that, you'll probably find it much easier to date men than women, and decide that you are gay.
Just give yourself some time before deciding whether you're gay or not.
2006-11-21 07:27:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 5⤋
yes it is. for as long as i can remember i have ALWAYS been attracted to the same sex. good luck. you will be fine.
2006-11-21 08:02:43 · answer #8 · answered by shyboy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
so when you were a kid you were thinking in men, hah i don't believe that sentence.. sorry like I always say, kids at that age don't think about relationships or sex... hello the only thing they like to do is play and play so open your eyes - it's not natural
2006-11-21 07:23:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 7⤋
no its not natural,it is against God,sorry just being honest
2006-11-21 07:24:19 · answer #10 · answered by daleswife 4 · 1⤊ 6⤋