2006-11-21 07:11:19 · 37 answers · asked by Orchid 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
If she puts out alot. SURE!
2006-11-21 07:12:59 · answer #1 · answered by Rock N' Roll Junkie 5 · 0⤊ 5⤋
Adit ya H - Not entirely a small job,
Considering now women are in coorperate america So along with men, we work, m-f 8-5
sometimes, if you were like my mom and always on call. You worked 24/7. So how are we suposed to work alongside you men, and turn around and fight with the boss to take our children to doctors appointments, take them to shcool. and leave work earily to pick them up. Then go back to work, and come home at 5:30 to cook dinner, and after dinner try and keep the house clean as possible.
Not to mention the hell we go trying to push those kids out a 10 cenemeter hole.
Sounds to me you men have it pretty cushy, just sitting around complaining how your wife doesn't give you enough puzzy.
Marridge should be 50/50, no one side should be more cushy than the other, if you SHARE in the family, then SHARE in the work. At the same time there are some women out there that push it all on the men, If you are a stay at home wife or mom, then sorry but you chose that path. My boyfriend is currently unemployed. I do not expect him to do the house work, some days he doesn't but it is a nice suprise when I come home and the house looks nice. I always cook him a big meal for doing that.
2006-11-21 07:26:59 · answer #2 · answered by danksprite420 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, they should do some of the housework because it is their housework to do also. When you say to help their wives it implies the work is the wife's work to do and you wonder if the husband shouldn't lend a hand also. I am a married man (almost 28 years). I help with the housecleaning because it is my work to do also. I help with the cooking because they are my meals too. And, I help with the laundry because they are my clothes also being washed.
I would not trade places with anyone. I never would have believed that it was possible to love my wife anymore than I did when we got married but, every morning I wake up loving her even more. We have been through good times, bad times and have raised three children to adulthood. Our marriage is a partnership that doesn't leave the drudge work to just one of the partners.
2006-11-21 07:18:36 · answer #3 · answered by toff 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you both work, then yes. And if the man is the bread winner, yes. Let me explain that, though. I would never be married to a man who did nothing while I bounced a colicy baby on one shoulder, stired a pot with the other hand, and helped my child with their homework at the same time. WHy not just do it alone?
Not to say that the man should do all the house/family work and work too while the wife does nothing, but hello, why should a woman be expected to do it.
2006-11-21 08:20:06 · answer #4 · answered by Sassy P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, they live in the house as well. Most wives work, many are mothers and can not do all the housework by themselves.
2006-11-21 14:04:38 · answer #5 · answered by Carol R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes they should always help their wives in house work. Its not just women responsibility 2 clean the house.
2006-11-21 07:12:56 · answer #6 · answered by Dark Side 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
I do it all the time, I Vac. I wash dishes. I do the laundry too and give the baby his bath every night before putting him to bed. the only thing I do not do is cook. But that's becuz she doesn't like my cooking!! I've lived on my own for a few years so I'm used to doing things around the house.
2006-11-21 07:19:49 · answer #7 · answered by Wibble 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I am kind of old fashioned and don't mind doing most of the housework. But I would appreciate it if men would at least do "manly" things, like shovel the snow, paint, put gas in the car. Seems like nowadays women are expected to do everything and there's no such thing as "gentlemen" anymore, willing to do those things for you. They just watch or walk by while you're trying to shovel your car out in the winter. Geez!
2006-11-21 07:24:01 · answer #8 · answered by beattyb 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely
2006-11-21 07:25:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
OF course! I do all the housework because I am a bachelor. What am I too wait for some women to come do it because some macho fool thinks it is women's work? Work is work pitch in and help and you will have more time to relax with your wife or partner.
2006-11-21 07:14:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Yep. I work full time and so does he. He helps out around the house and everything gets done sooner so we have more time with the family and there is not so much stress from just me worrying about having to do it all.
2006-11-21 07:14:06 · answer #11 · answered by lisa h 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋