the first day of my last period was on april7th....my cycles are very regular and normal every 28days......and the last month i had sex with my boyfriend was in april, ....more than once after my period ends....they were all unprotected sex,never once did use condoms....anyway we broke up on may 1st.....and i slept with someone else on may 2nd.....my next period should be on may 5th....but did'nt come......i took a home pregncy test onmay10th in the late afternoon which came back positive immediately with a very dark line....on my ultrasound and belly measurement im measuring right on dates.....me and the other guy used a condom.....im now almost 33weeks pregnant .....and my due date is january 11th.....there's no chance the other guy could posibly be the father of my baby....i told my boyfriend to have a paternity test done when our baby is born.....he says he'll just look at the baby and tell if its his....what do u guys think.
2006-11-21 07:10:54 · 16 answers · asked by sunshine 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
The baby is your boyfriends tell him to be a man and step up to the plate. It's his baby and demand a paternity test when he is born. Ultra sounds don't lie they are very accurate . You got pregnant in April sometime.
2006-11-21 07:17:13 · answer #1 · answered by mary3127 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all, timing alone would indicate that it's his baby. Not to mention the condom use, etc. Based on the information you just gave there's really no doubt about that.
What worries me more is his statement that he'll be able to look at the baby and know it's his. That's kind of scary, in that babies don't look like much of anybody when they're newborns. He's going to base his fatherhood and his respect for you on something very subjective. He needs to have enough respect for you and enough trust in you to either go on faith or take a definitive test. He can't stake something so important on something that fallible.
I mean, even if there was a variable involved such as men of two different races, pigment doesn't fully develop until well after birth.
2006-11-21 07:20:46 · answer #2 · answered by Devanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From the dates and the fact that the other guy used a condom, there should be no doubt that the baby is your boyfriend's. You can have a paternity test done just to be sure, because a baby's appearance doesn't necessarily show who the parents are. However I think your bf might be trying to find an excuse to get out of the situation, so be wary.
2006-11-21 07:16:34 · answer #3 · answered by Blue Jean 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Question to be answered by yourself 1) What would a father be like, if the child saw the father treats the mother not well sometimes? 2) IF he takes you for granted, would he take your child for granted? 3) Can you define what bad treatment really mean in context? IF in the context of ill respect, e.g. "my way or no way" or other extreme cases, then you might want to reconsider it. Since a relationship need balance of everything from the two of you, not just a one way street. 4) Can you define how he take you for granted? And would it be tolerable many years later, when you know you have to stuck with him! But if you let go now, you might be free? 5) I suggest you talk to your parents and some social worker, and your doctor, who might be able to help you find alternative way to raise a kid. 6) Congrat. Inside your womb is a new life
2016-05-22 08:35:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I think according to your dates that it should be your boyfriends baby not the one time guy. However if I was in the same situtation I would get it tested just to be sure. Not to mention I would hate to have the relationship end years down the road (knock on wood) and try to fight him to prove that it is his kid.
Also to address the "I will know by looking" most babies born do look like their fathers. It is because in the olden days it was how men knew to support their children. However maybe he is also saying it because to him it doesnt matter either way...
Good Luck!!
2006-11-21 07:29:35 · answer #5 · answered by Ashleigh C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you see the thing is..while women are going through pregnancy the guy is too. they also get mixed up emotions. and sometimes they dont know how to react. and when they do, you never know if its gonna be positive or negative. if it gets any worst you can always get a blood test once the baby is born. just dont let it stress you out. he so far is being a good father. and that you should focus on for now.
love jen
2006-11-21 07:14:08 · answer #6 · answered by Jennie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Our dates match up almost perfectly. I'll be 33 weeks tomorrow. I'm due January 10th. It is your boyfriends baby. There's no question. I took my pregnancy test right about the same day as you did. I hope everything works out. The baby is his regardless of what he wants to think. You would of had to of conceived in April just as I did to be about the same as I am. Don't stress out!!! Good Luck!!!
2006-11-21 07:17:30 · answer #7 · answered by Shannon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he truely loves you and trusts you there should be no questions, you have been completly upfront with him, so it seems, so this should not be an issue. Your best bet is to wait and see what happens when you have your precious little one, just remember a child needs his/her mothers love. I am sure you will have nothing to worry about once he sees that eautiful baby I am sure there will be no doubts in his mind, he seems like a great guy, but do you balme him for having his doubts become a father is just as hard and scary as becoming a mother...put yourself inhis shoes!
2006-11-21 07:35:38 · answer #8 · answered by TLAA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He cannot tell by looking. Get that paternity test done so there is NO question. Your child deserves to know that daddy is really daddy.
2006-11-21 07:13:56 · answer #9 · answered by Velken 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He won't be able to tell who fathered the baby just be looking at it.
Get the paternity test done.
2006-11-21 07:14:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋