iam a 13 yer old guy who loves girls and i love to be in realationships with girls but sometimes i watch gay porn and i think of guys,but iam sure i like girls but iam not sure cuz i sometimes think of guys...any one else have this problem????
2006-11-21 07:10:02 · 12 answers · asked by rp 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
wow! a bunch of great answers for a sensitive question. I am impressed.
little dude, you need to check out jackinworld.com your questions will be answered. explore your world, but be smart. think before you act.
just remember to love your self.
peace
2006-11-21 19:19:39 · answer #1 · answered by spooky 1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 13 you are just curious.
The best guide to your sexuality is not the porn you watch (and you probably shouldn't need any at 13!) but what you fantasize about when you masturbate. If you are gay, you'll fantasize about doing sexual things with men; if you are straight, you'll think about women; and if you are bi, you'd think about sexual acts with both men and women.
Regardless, all are normal sexual orientations. Your orientation is fixed before puberty and cannot be changed, so just relax and enjoy your teen years!
2006-11-21 08:44:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just enjoy whichever you like. Many teen boys are attracted to other guys, most just never admit it. Teens are a time to be curious and explore your sexuality, a lot of guys will experiment with other guys, just keep being curious and learn all you can. It is not the time to decide your orientation, wait until you are grown for that.
2006-11-21 09:37:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My hubby has made peace with his bi-sexual curiosity a long time ago. The first thing to do is accept / admit you may also be attracted (sexually) to the male anatomy. There is nothing wrong with that!
What could be a problem is if you feel ashamed and try to repress your feelings; that can have disastrous results in the long term.
So enjoy it while you are still young; in today's day and age, there is nothing to be ashamed of!
2006-11-21 07:16:17 · answer #4 · answered by ButtahChick (ButterChick) 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think this is pretty normal for teen boys. It's all about the unknown. Relax and try not to worry to much about it. Im sure in time you will be able to decide. It's ok to be confused. I think all teenagers are. Good luck
2006-11-21 07:20:10 · answer #5 · answered by GI 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What happened to the video games and sports dude...you are waaaaaay to young to be watching porn.
Sexual feeling at your age are going to be all over the map, don't label yourself and be very careful what you allow yourself to get involved in..... seriously though, get rid of the porn.
2006-11-21 13:09:19 · answer #6 · answered by chuck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of times a teen boy is curious because he is just curious about himself. You might or might not grow out of it. If you dont, it doesnt mean you are neccessarily gay. And if you are gay, there is nothing wrong with that either.
2006-11-21 07:58:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
umm ur bi-curious...get with a guy and if u like it then ur bi but if you dont like it then ur straight
2006-11-21 08:51:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just normal feelings not a problem..
don't rush it you'll figure it all out.
use condoms no matter what!
2006-11-21 08:17:09 · answer #9 · answered by saltydunes24 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
same thing is happing to me and no your not gay ur bi
2006-11-21 11:18:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋