2006-11-21 07:02:30 · 12 answers · asked by chula 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
have it and make him PAY
2006-11-21 07:04:33 · answer #1 · answered by adl6802 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is YOUR body, YOUR baby, YOUR life, and YOUR decision. Also, whether or not you can type or spell is not at all indicative of how good of a parent you would be, so everyone on this board who made nasty comments should be ashamed of themselves. Anyways, getting back to your dilemma - this is a free country. If you do not want the baby, you don't have to have it. However, if you do want to have the baby, you should. I am sure you probably have friends and family who can help you. There are also tons of support groups for women in your situation; google it or call Planned Parenthood for more details. One thing is for sure - whether you love the father or not, he's probably not a stand up type of guy. Sometimes it hurts, but this person is probably not a good choice for you or anyone else until he grows up a lot. Whatever you decide, you also need to look into better birth control, so that next time, this can be a bit more planned.
Good luck. I know this is a hard decision!
2006-11-21 07:42:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the childs father and have your baby. Just turn him in to childs support office and get some money every month to take care of your baby. Women rise there kids by there self all the time. It's just a woman thing.
2006-11-21 10:24:47 · answer #3 · answered by wetcat2009 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clearly you are in no way prepared to have a child in your life. You need to either have an abortion (not advocating that) or find a nice set of adoptive parents.
I would then suggest finishing high school and maybe continuing to college. I would also suggest using birth control or not having sex in the future.
2006-11-21 07:21:24 · answer #4 · answered by Goose&Tonic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-04 05:23:41 · answer #5 · answered by oberlander 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry I don't care how much you love him, If he doesn't want a baby with you he is a piece of Sh*t you need to get rid of. He obviously has no respect for you to ask you not to have your child. What REAL MAN would ask you to kill you baby? HELLO!!! Why in Heaven's name would you disrespect yourself by staying with that kind of a man-Love be Damned!
2006-11-21 07:17:56 · answer #6 · answered by purpledragonflyjrh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend should have been more careful. He should take his responsibility. If you want to keep the baby keep it no matter what. Just make sure you will take good care of it. I'm sure your boyfriend will change his mind when he'll see the baby. Babies are so irrisistible = )
2006-11-21 07:13:06 · answer #7 · answered by vertigo4487 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say bye bye dont even think twice leave him alone for alittle while sooner or later he will come to his senses or better yet wait until he see's the baby that is when most guys step up and be responsilble and if he dosent react then hes no good!!!!
2006-11-21 07:07:30 · answer #8 · answered by Keisha C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep the baby. He may not want the baby now but he could always change his mind. Their are alot of parents who dont want their babies so the choose to put their baby up for adoption but when the baby is born and they see the baby they change their minds.
2006-11-21 07:07:10 · answer #9 · answered by Catelyn O 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not to be mean, but #1...finish high school and learn to spell and type. #2..forget about him and move on with your life.
2006-11-21 07:04:36 · answer #10 · answered by Erika B 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Throw his butt to the curb!! How can anyone love someone who doesn't love their own children??
2006-11-21 07:09:30 · answer #11 · answered by Crystal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋