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2006-11-21 07:02:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes .............but i don't understand why people think even divorce why they can't try to resolve fights calmy......then there wil be no div........
2006-11-21 07:09:38 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any serious family status change can affect children. The loss of a parent due to divorce, death, or desertion can affect children's self awarenes, self esteem, and general outlook on life. Many children go through life completely unphazed while others are more affected and in some cases require psychological therapy to help resolve thier personal issues. The introduction of a new parent almost never fills the void of the parent that is missing. Many parents feel oh wow my family is now complete while the children are still wondering about the parent that is out of the picture. If the child is exhibiting signs of stress or distress treatment should be sought through therapy. The long terms effects if left untreated can include depression, weakened immunity, and anxiety disorders. Most places have state/county/city funded mental health facilities, and will be easy to find in the yellow pages of your local phone directory.
2006-11-21 07:13:24 · answer #2 · answered by stogsdille 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes all kids get sad from divorce. Studies have shown that kids tend to blame themselves for their parents divorce so that is why is important for parents to talk to their kids before and make sure the parent that is not living with the child or children to have a steady role in their children lives.
As far as health problems, i don't think so....It's usually more of an emotional issue than physical.
2006-11-21 07:08:04 · answer #3 · answered by queenzhottie78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes they do get upset...One of my good friends got along really well and when she heard they were getting a divorce she nearly hit depression. So yea it affects some kids and doesnt bother others, but if they get along well with their parents, their most likely to be affected by divorce or remarriage.Once their parents want to remarry the kids dont like it because they keep thinking and having hope that their parents will get back together soon.
2006-11-21 07:06:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes they do get problems health and other mental problem kids are not born knowing how to deal with divorce and the loss of a parent not being around its hard and stress full if it happen it happens but please think about your kids make it as easy as it can be on them get out side help any where you can put them first if you can my grandson breaks out in haves and runs fever every time his mom takes him , They are having alot of problems
2006-11-21 12:38:35 · answer #5 · answered by helen l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both my kids were young when I divorced their father. Although they were 4 years old and 14 months old, the eldest stayed mad at me for about 11 years about the breakup until one day her father told her the reason behind our divorce (his cheating), since then she's been apologizing to me for her behaviour. I am in the process of planning a second marriage next year, and both kids couldn't be happier for me and absolutely love my fiance.
2006-11-21 07:08:14 · answer #6 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My own daughter had intestinal problems for many months after I left her father. She was too young at the time to realize that he was abusive. I took her and her brother and left. I ended up taking her to therapy when we relocated. She was under the therapists care for six months and the problems went away. It was a hard six months for her. As she grew, I began to let her know little by little that the situation we were in was grave. So, yes, children get very sad when they don't understand what is happening to them.
2006-11-21 07:07:24 · answer #7 · answered by montana657 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the manner that is i gone about adn how it explain to them I think... I have never been married or devorced but when I was a child my mother had many affairs so my parents almos split up alot... they way I found out about my mother was aweful adn so was the way my parents dealt with their problem... It was never explain to me and my parents never discussed it with me instead I was almost neglected because of it... Now I have General Anxiety Disorder because of my childhood and I trust no one... I think if the matter was handled much different I would be fine... so just be careful how u explain it to the child... and take it slow... Good Luck
2006-11-21 07:06:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and not just the kids, the adults get sad to,health problems no I wouldn't go that far..Kids learn to deal just like us...
2006-11-21 07:09:00 · answer #9 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think divorce, separation, and marriage affect everyone involved. My mom died in 01 and my parents were together and happy all my life. My dad remarried in 02 to a woman HALF HIS AGE... so, yea... its VERY tough on the kids. I know it was rough on me.
2006-11-21 07:04:41 · answer #10 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes i was deffinitly sad and had/have mental health problems because of it. I havent noticed any physical health problems from it though.
2006-11-21 07:04:57 · answer #11 · answered by Panda 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋