It's so weird...ever since I lost my virginity...vaginal intercourse has always been painful. I have never felt any pleasure from it and I think that this interfere's with my interpersonal relationships. I can't seem to bond or attach with my boyfriend etc. I wonder if it's just a mind thing or there's something wrong dwon there. Help a sister out.
2006-11-21 06:23:57 · 8 answers · asked by Ms. Omokorede 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
You should speak with an Gynecologist about this. There could be something physically wrong that they can assist you with.
2006-11-21 06:27:31 · answer #1 · answered by S Robert 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There may be a lot of things going on here. If you are experiencing painful intercouse, there may be some medical issues at hand. I would recommend seeing your primary care physician or your gynecologist. Sometimes, intercouse will hurt, but is not the norm. Intercouse should feel pleasureable. If it isn't a medical issue, it quite possibly may be emotional or psychological. Only a licensed professional would be able to conclude on that one. Please see a medical professional right away to help you through this. I hope that this helps!
2006-11-21 06:31:06 · answer #2 · answered by shecatdevil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Certainly you should not start it immediately, depending what you may like the most, you two can focus on that for a long period of time ( kissing your lips, ears, sucking breasts,...) it may causes to you all of a suddent that you may need sex at the moment, also be sure to lubricate it good but not too much not to feel anything, also you should find and choose the best position for it, it is really important, in some positions there may not be any joy for you and the most important :WANT IT AND FOCUS ON IT! good luck
2006-11-21 06:45:11 · answer #3 · answered by ASARA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitly try with lots of foreplay. but it could also be the emotional state your in if you're not enjoying the intercourse at all.. if you are not happy with your partner, or you always have other things on your mind then it's hard to be in the moment and really enjoy the experience. You should find yourself the right person who will take care of you.. and make sure that you have fun during sex.
2006-11-21 07:01:41 · answer #4 · answered by fallingasteriod 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it shouldnt be painful but having said that intercourse is rarely pleasarable for a woman,you need other stimulation.find out what makes you feel good and tell your boyfriend.
2006-11-21 06:43:32 · answer #5 · answered by jumpy789 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED TO DEVELOP A VERY ROMANTIC BOND WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND. WOMEN ARE VERY EMOTIONAL AND IF YOU NOT FEELING UP TO IT, THEN YOUR BODY IS GONNA REACT THE SAME WAY, SO SPEND SOME TIME WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND AND WORK ON THAT CONNECTION THING, AND WHEN YOU ARE READY YOU WILL HAVE HIM SCREAMING YOUR NAME.
2006-11-22 02:26:44 · answer #6 · answered by desbornmara 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell your boyfriend you needs lots of foreplay. Don't do 'quickies'.
2006-11-21 06:26:48 · answer #7 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey you need a new lover that knows what to do...
2006-11-22 03:51:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋