ALL THE TIME THEY ONLY USE U FOR THAT AND THEY DONT CARE WHAT YOU FEEL. WHAT WOULD YOU DO?????
2006-11-21 06:20:04 · 14 answers · asked by doll_baby989 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you have almost been raped, this is very traumatic. I feel very sorry for you. I wish I could understand more and also know your age.
All I can say with the information given is, it will be your word against this mans word and without evidence you can't prove anything. Stay safe and keep your chin up, I am sure your family cares for you. You just may not feel like they do right now.
2006-11-21 06:23:39 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle Lynn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
turn the perv in to the police. especially if it someone you know like a relative. it could happen again.
is it your parents using you for house chores? if so then that is a valid thing they can ask of you if you are still living at home.lots of kids think they are overworked by the parents but really considering all that it takes to run a household you probably aren't doing as much as you think. of course there are some that really make their kids do everything and i mean everything and if that is the case then you should discuss a chore list that can be expected of you (compare it to a list of things your parents do and you'll be surprised at how little falls on your shoulders.) my daughters only chore is her school work but come summer time and weekends she does dishes and her room and she thinks she is overworked. she does them at most 2-3 times a month. a vacume here and there as well. shes 16 and does not no how to do laundry or dusting she will this summer though. if you do more than that it probably still is not to much. most kids do alot more but since her grades are not the best i would rather she spend the time on homework.
but back to the real problem here. the attempted rape. did they not believe you? do they have a reason to believe you would lie about something like that? unfortunately some kids do cry rape to get attention but it still should never be dismissed without looking into it. talk to your school counselor, a friends parent, someone at your church, the police.
creeps like that don't do it once and stop. someone else could be next. good luck hon.
with each chore you do think of something positive while doing it.
if its laundry. be glad you have clothes at all
if its dishes be thankful for the food that was on them
if its vacuming and dusting be thankful your not homeless
if your parents seem mean at times be glad you have them. lots of kids would love to have a mom or dad even a seemingly mean one.
if they are not abusing you then they are loving you. be glad for that even if it doesn't appear to be love. it is.
2006-11-21 06:58:16 · answer #2 · answered by jezbnme 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The police do nothing about it? If you haven't gone to the police you should. They can help get him behind bars. If your family doesn't care then that's their problem. You should tell the police because that might bring it to your familie's attention. Don't let this man control you. You should put him behind bars...
Good Luck
2006-11-21 06:42:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is life sometimes if you are old enough to get out of the house and live on your own or with a room mate i would do that. you need to get out and get some friends who will care about you even if your family seems uncapable of doing so. get a job an dmove out and get soem friends
and im real sorry they didnt do anything to the guy who tried to rape you... it is areal shame. but it happens all the time b/c its one of those things that is so hard to prove. you have my sympathy.
2006-11-21 06:24:08 · answer #4 · answered by becca_2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out that is not safe for you...you should sue the family and called the police when it happened in the first place, put your safety above others
2006-11-21 06:23:25 · answer #5 · answered by saraikyon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A choose can legally say what they choose for. we can't probably remark because of the fact we don't have each and all of the information. you will have had a lawyer. Your best venture is which you on no account pronounced something to everyone. So it is your word against his word. except you have witnesses, the choose has no real evidence of what occurred. only initiate reporting something and each little thing he does.
2016-11-25 23:05:33 · answer #6 · answered by sheryl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek rape counseling. Know that rape is more of a mental violent act than a physical one. Accept the fact that you did not do anything wrong. Most of all know that vegenance is mine saith the Lord I will repay. Your rapist time is coming. Love yourself. Love yourself. Love yourself.
2006-11-21 06:54:57 · answer #7 · answered by LOLO W 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop asking us and call the police; and if you use this as just a way to get attention then you are no better than the rapists...and I HATE rapists.
2006-11-21 06:23:44 · answer #8 · answered by flyboop_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing he still assaulted you, and that's a crime. Please find the courage to go to the police, chances are this pig has done this before. I'm very sorry about your family being so flippant, that must really suck.
2006-11-21 06:37:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to stop babysitting and move out. For your own safety, don't tell them your moving out. Just dissapear. Be brave.
2006-11-21 06:24:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋