2006-11-21 06:14:47 · 15 answers · asked by Angelica S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I have the same problem! I dont know what to do! He has a girlfriend too! They have went out before and then broke up and started talking to me a lot and we started to hang out! then him and the same girl started dating again and have been for almost a yr! I try to get over the way I feel about him but when I am around him I cant forget about they way I feel!
I dont want to ruin my friendship though!
2006-11-21 06:23:11 · answer #1 · answered by lucynlynsey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should, and I will tell you why I think so...because a long time back,I spent about two years of my life having "feelings" for my best male friend...I was too chicken to tell him...well, I finally did, and we dated for a short while, but it didn't last...today, about 10 years later, we are still friends...but I will tell you, things WERE awkward when the "relationship" didn't work out, and the friendship was damaged for a while, but like I said, we are still friends today and I since then met and fell in love with and married my now husband...so the moral of my story is, that although it is risky and scarey, it is better to tell him how you feel than "waste" months and months wondering "what if", life is too short...the worst thing that could happen is that he tells you he only sees you as a friend, and after the initial awkwardness, you will move on but you can still be friends, and who knows, maybe he will say that he feels the same way! Good luck! Be brave!
2006-11-21 06:20:58 · answer #2 · answered by jennycf2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont really have all that much to lose. Besides, he probably already has figured it out. When boys and girls are bestfriends, usually there is some sort of attraction, and thats what keeps them tied. Who knows... He could have a crush on you too.
2006-11-21 06:17:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, u really need 2 do it. i did that the other day and i told my friend the way i feel about hiim and he feels the same way. i think it has brought us closer together and we r moving on. it's gotten 2 the point where we can go out but we both agreed that we don't want 2 yet. u need 2 do it cuz it can really change your friendship
2006-11-21 08:56:24 · answer #4 · answered by princess3131995 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should tell him. My husband and I were best friends for 2 years before we started dating. One day we were talking and I said to him I think I love you. He then said to me I love you too. Now almost 6 years together we are newlyweds and are very happy. I know it may seem like a risk but it is definitely worth it.
2006-11-21 06:35:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends if you think he likes you. If you feel that he doesn't then do you want to risk the good relationship that you have right now? Most of the time when somebody tells you that they like you then you look at them a little different after wards, especially if you don't like them. If you think that he likes you then go right ahead and good luck to you.
2006-11-21 06:18:35 · answer #6 · answered by Mags 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know the entire situation but from experience, i say you should. if u dont u could live to regret what might have been, and if he is truely that close of a friend than hopefully it wont ruin your relationship but at the same time it is entirely possible that he feels the same way. i would take the time to ask him how he feels and what he wants
2006-11-21 06:17:51 · answer #7 · answered by Tiffany A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes! tell him how u feel and be sure to state that if he doesnt feel the same then u want to stay friends. the most importan thing is stating that u want to remain friends no matter how he feels about you to taking it to the next step.
2006-11-21 06:17:33 · answer #8 · answered by ~*cRaCkNeSs*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! Yes! Yes! I promise you it will work because it just worked for me last month and our relationship is the bomb because we already know each other very well!
Good Luck!
2006-11-21 06:17:30 · answer #9 · answered by redbone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, my best friend became my husband! It's been 15 yrs now and we're still best friends. He really cares about me because we started out friends. Please, go for it!!! Don't let him slip through your fingers!!
2006-11-21 06:18:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋