If you are dating a bi woman, and dont mind her having a girlfriend (not talking about 3'somes here). Is it cool for her 'friend' to call round; get involved in family events; be part of the family? or is that taking things too far. Personally i dont have an issue with it at all, but some ive spoken to think it should be kept as a seperate relationship.
Your views.......?
2006-11-21 06:10:00 · 19 answers · asked by John S 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If you and your girlfriend are happy with your situation - stuff everyone else!!
Happiness is fleeting in this world - grab it with both hands!
2006-11-21 10:59:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have answered your own question: "Personally i dont have an issue with it at all, but some ive spoken to think it should be kept as a seperate relationship." It is your life and you have a relationship with this woman. You do what is the best for both of you. What does it REALLY matter what "some you've spoken to" think?
It's your life.
2006-11-21 23:40:16 · answer #2 · answered by KD 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really about the nature of the relationships. If everyone is ok with the way things are and understand what their relationship is and isn't things should be alright. If one or more of the relationships starts to change, everyone needs to sit down and discuss what's going on. If they start getting serious and you and your girlfriend get really serious too, as long as you're all ok with it not being exclusive it should be alright. The problem comes when one day someone wakes up ad realizes oh crap, things have changed and now I'm not comfortable with the way they are. I'd say it's *definitely* time to address what's going on before a serious problem arises.
2006-11-21 06:22:14 · answer #3 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's fine with you, then it's fine with you but as the saying goes, "two is company and three is a crowd". There must be times when you feel less valued. I don't know anything about b-relationships so can't really answer your question.
2006-11-21 06:17:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't have been okay with her seeing someone else in the first place but if you are okay with it then go ahead and let her take part, as long as the two of you get along and everything.
2006-11-21 12:13:56 · answer #5 · answered by Rageling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its up to the individual, if your comfortable with this then its fine, personally i think that a relationship should be between two people (gay, bi or whatever) but thats my feeling, im not you!
2006-11-21 06:19:30 · answer #6 · answered by herbal ashtray 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am in that sort of relationship, I have a gf and I am married with kids, and yes she is included in our family, because she a part of my life, and it would wrong to keep it apart, i am not saying I flaunt my sexuality, but why keep things apart, why live two seprate lives
2006-11-21 06:17:46 · answer #7 · answered by leo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Only you can answer that for your self. If you can tolerate it and feel your relationship is secure enough that you don't feel like they are running off to the garage to be together, then I guess its OK..
Don't you love run on sentences?
2006-11-21 06:17:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating your partner is cheating. Now if she is cheating with a person you don’t feel to be rivalrous this is still cheating. One night stands can be acceptable, but I wouldn’t take it on a permanent basis.
2006-11-25 01:49:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i think it is fine b-cuz iam bi and i do not mind it. If people do not like it they can just mind their own business.
2006-11-21 06:18:59 · answer #10 · answered by Staci S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋