I just found out that I am pregnant & I am so scared! & I am a bit "iffy" on who the father is! The first day of my last normal period was Oct 16th. I had unprotected sex [we used the "pull-out" method] with a man on Oct 27th. I was worried that I might have gotten pregnant then but decided to "brush off" the idea because I thought I was being paranoid. On Nov 11th I had protected sex [condom] with a man. That exact next morning I began having morning sickness. & I felt pretty funny that whole next week. I had sex again [with the same man] on the 17th of Nov [we used a condom the whole time except for about 5 minutes]. Now, Tuesday, Nov 21st, I am positive I am pregnant. Who is more likely to be the father based on fertilization, etc? Please help, I know my story sounds completely shameful, and don't get me wrong, it is...but I need so help.
2006-11-21 06:03:51 · 13 answers · asked by amber b 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I'd guess the Oct 27th guy. That is about right for ovulation. But I'd dna test to be sure. Looks like you have some talking to do with 2 certain guys.....
2006-11-21 06:08:30 · answer #1 · answered by Velken 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
May i ask you a question. How do you know for sure that your pregnant? From my exp. You usually cant get a good read on a pregnancy test til your about 5-6 weeks preg so if it was the first man you where talking about then its only been almost a month not even...Hinse the fact that I'm asking how you know your pregnant. I'm guessing the only way you would know is a blood test at the hospital or some where else...and if that's the fact i would go with guy #1 but then again if it was a blood test....Blood test will tell you that your pregnant even if your only 1 week pregnant...So how did you find out if blood test you will never know and you need a DNA test i would advise you to get one anyways. Just be honest with them and everything will be fine if there good men they will be with you through the pregnancy GOOD LUCK!!! By the way if it was a blood test didn't they tell you how far along you are? Or around about what time you go pregnant...They can tell you that and then you can kinda calculate for yourself once again Good Luck Wish you the Best!!
2006-11-21 06:24:29 · answer #2 · answered by Tiffany 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is most likely that you got pregnant by the man you had sex with on the 27th of October. Most women usually ovulate about 10 to 14 days from the first day of her last period.
Good Luck, and don't be so ashamed, if you were a guy, you would be getting high-fives!
2006-11-21 06:28:20 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. Wizard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assuming you have a regular 28 (*ish) day cycle normallly, you would only be a few days late for your normal expected period. The unprotected sex on 10/27 was most likely the one if you are sure you are pregnant (did you take a HPT!?).. here's why: On a *normal* cycle, ovulation (when you can get pg) falls right about in the middle of your cycle (usually somewhere in days 11-17); this varies from woman to woman. Implantation (when the embryo attaches to the uterus) occurs very close the time you would be expecting your next period, so it can take usually 10-14 days for any signs (morning sickness, missed period, positive HP) to show - making it very unlikely that you would fall pregnant to the 2nd guy that late in your period (and thereby impossible to feel any symptoms the very next day). Please keep in mind that everybody's cycle is different and many prenancy symptoms mirror PMS (esp. if you're paranoid!)... if you haven't already done so, please take a HPT for your own piece of mind. I'm sure you were expecting this next bit... Use protection always if you are going to be promiscuous! :) Good luck.
2006-11-21 06:21:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off the pull-out method DOES NOT WORK. Little swimmers get out before he even knows it. It would be most likely that the gentlemen you were with on the 27th is the lucky daddy. The time you felt a little morning sickness fits right in and so does the ovulation cycle that usually occurs about a week after your period. My bet is the Mr. 27th.
2006-11-21 06:13:32 · answer #5 · answered by notfreeinnh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you positive? did you do a test? I would say the first one, the other you had a condom with, and in general fertility can be anywhere from 11 to 21 days, putting him in that range. Pull out methid isnt a great idea, coz there is precum, leaving it a bit too late, etc,Condoms are a much better form of protection. You are not the first person on here that this has happened too, so dont feel too bad, and dont listen to judgemental people. Good luck, I hope its the dad you wanted!
2006-11-21 06:09:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
i say guy #1 it's very very rare to get pregnant using a rubber. the dates are kind of far apart when you see a doctor they can tell you how far you are you'll have a better ideal. ALSO the oct. 27th sex would have been prime time ovulation in a 28 day cycle.
2006-11-21 06:08:48 · answer #7 · answered by ally'smom 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably the pull out guy. If you conceived normally based on a 28 day cycle you would have ovulated around the 30th.
2006-11-21 06:07:50 · answer #8 · answered by chicchick 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would say guy number 1
2006-11-21 06:09:20 · answer #9 · answered by flaminfortune 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
guy #1 (oct 27th) most likely.
2006-11-21 06:06:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋