My husband and I have a pretty active sex life, but he doesn't ever just kiss me anymore, open mouth, those passionate kisses I use to get that would make my knees melt. I miss those kisses. I do not have bad breath, I use to be told that I was a good kisser, but how do I make him want or desire to kiss me like that again?
2006-11-21 05:30:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Discuss your problem with him to find out why? That will be the only way to answer your question.
2006-11-21 05:36:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men have to be praised for everything! If for some reason he doesn't think he is a good kisser, he won't want to kiss you. tell him he's the best and you miss that in the relationship.
If he is a husband that cares whether or not you are impressed with him, he will wait until you are not expecting it and lay one on ya..
but if he is the type that could care less whether you are impressed with him or not, he may ignore you. If you love him you won't get bitter over it and go on to appreciate the rest of the relationship.
Some women would like a more active sex life! I seen a question on here earlier that asked what to do if you seen your husband embracing another man.... that ought to help you to appreciate!!!
2006-11-21 14:06:14 · answer #2 · answered by Rica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kissing does not have anything to do with your age. You got to want to kiss the person. Why don't you make yourself more desirable for him and you start kissing him in a way that you know he likes, and see what happens!
2006-11-21 13:34:29 · answer #3 · answered by Sam 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just kiss him with passion. You also might want to work on making your marriage a source of fulfillment and happiness for him.
2006-11-21 13:36:42 · answer #4 · answered by Myrmaad 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask him any thing until you've walked up to him and given him a great, big french kiss. If he's receptive, then he wants you to be aggressive some times, and if he backs up then you ask him what do you need to do for him to fulfill your need of showing affection from time to time.
2006-11-21 13:38:45 · answer #5 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol I have the same problem too. I asked my spouse why he don't kiss me like he used to.. his reply is "We're married now.". I then said "let's get a divorce then." His reply was "No, then I would have to do it all over again." (not in a mean way...we both joke around a lot.) Deep down... I know that he loves me.
2006-11-21 13:35:07 · answer #6 · answered by rupmsn2 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He might just think that now that you're married you have to be more "proper" and "polite" and "grown-up", just ask him what the problem is and tell him what want the passion you both once had.
The best to both of you!!
2006-11-21 13:33:10 · answer #7 · answered by ace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit waiting for him to kiss you. Kiss him like that!
2006-11-21 13:31:48 · answer #8 · answered by kja63 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like trouble in paradise for you. Why not take incentive and start kissing him the way you want to be kissed? It's not your husband's job to read your mind and know your every need instantly. It sounds like he does all the work in the relationship and you just sit there expecting things to be perfect. I think he could do better.
2006-11-21 13:31:41 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 4⤋
Don't have such an active sex life. Then he'll be more passionate. You know? He'll long for you more.
2006-11-21 13:33:16 · answer #10 · answered by Stormy 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋