Before I was told by my doctor not to have intercourse my hubby and I watched pornos but I would get jealous that I am all HUGE and PREGNANT and he would get so turned on by the video. . . :( I feel like I'm not attractive anymore. Anyone felt jealousy of videos while pregnant??
2006-11-21 05:26:49 · 14 answers · asked by VeeCheer 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
1st of all - you need to watch pregnant porn so you see that pregnant woman can be sexy.
2nd of all - your body is out of your control and it is a very hard thing to deal with. You can't see it or reach it so it must be gone. Not true!!
Most woman feel this way. Ask your partnert to tell you that your sexy. You have an ability to do something that he can't. You give up just under a year to growing his child and you need to know that he appreciates you for that. I am sure after having a good chat you will feel better.
Good Luck.........sexy mama!
2006-11-21 05:45:20 · answer #1 · answered by buggerhead 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I was jealous of the chicks my husband saw at work. He is an assistant manager for a drugstore, and the one he worked in at the time was located very close to a college campus, so all these tiny little college girls in their low-rise jeans kept coming into the store (my husband and I are in our mid-20's, so a lot of these girls were close to his age, too). I was always afraid that he was looking at them and wishing that I looked like that instead of a huge pregnant cow...I know pregnancy is a beautiful thing, but I just felt fat and gross. Then the day came that one of the girls gave her number to the cashier to give to my husband! He asked the cashier why she didn't tell the girl that he was married, and she said "I don't know what kind of relationship you have with your wife...I didn't want to get in the way of a possible opportunity for you." I thought I was going to go over to the store and kick the cashier's ***. Anyway, it's normal to feel super-jealous of non-pregnant women when you are pregnant, but just remember that being pregnant is a natural state, and that most men are still very attracted to their pregnant wives. Men get turned on by porn because it's porn...they like any additional visual stimulation...it doesn't mean they think the girls in the videos look better than us :)
2006-11-21 05:59:21 · answer #2 · answered by AshletD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was never jealous like that off a video, but I do understand where you are coming from. I also felt unattractive and I couldn't stand all those other little "twigs" out there. I was only 19 when I had my first, but I finally realized that being pregnant is a VERY BEAUTIFUL thing. Just think you have a life inside of you that you helped create. And there is nothing more beautiful than that! Congratulations, remember that your husband was obviously attracted to you enough for you to be in your situatiuon! Your even more so now.
2006-11-21 05:34:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because you can't have intercourse doesn't mean you can't enjoy sex. You can do other things, besides intercourse. Trying a little hand or oral pleasure because things really do get heated up then. Tell him some things that will make you feel sexy, because he helped in this too. I personally think every pregnant woman is beautiful, and I hope this anwser helps! Good Luck!
2006-11-21 05:36:00 · answer #4 · answered by Ashley_Nicole 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i felt like that. mostly cause i'd been hearing that guys are less attracted to girls that are pregnant. i got over it kinda...but its nothing to get stressed out over. i think the reason women get jealous when they're pregnant is because they're going through this pregnancy and want to make sure their men are there for them. at least thats what i wanted to know. my bf always says he's here for me but i didnt believe it. not until yesterday. he proved it big time. but just relax and remember, your guy cant have those girls on those videos. but just make sure he has time for you. you cant have sex but there are other ways to show you are loved by him. if he doesnt do anything. you do it for him. and things will work out. :0)
love jennie.
2006-11-21 05:36:25 · answer #5 · answered by Jennie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, not me. There are other ways to enjoy sexual actively besides actual intercourse. Besides, sex is a natural as well a healthy. Though you may not be able to partake right now, doesn't mean that he shouldn't be able to relieve himself. A mans need to ejaculate is just that, a "need" not a desire. A man must ejaculate to maintain health. Men who do not ejaculate regularly, show higher risks of developing prostate cancer. If you can't find it in your mind to let go of the jealousy, and give him a hand (literally) for his health, then step aside and let him do what he needs to do by himself. Its for his own health.
2006-11-21 05:32:59 · answer #6 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My wife is pregnant and due to complications we cannot have intercourse. I have been without for like 7 months now and I do not resort to watching other women on video to fulfill my needs. That is disrespectful to your marriage.
2006-11-21 05:32:58 · answer #7 · answered by HJ8 1 · 6⤊ 0⤋
i do not want to seem callous, but, you might want to relieve your hubby's backlog by using a bit of manual relief for your hubby so he will feel better and remember "being with child is a beautiful thing" "flaunt your body in front of him and drive him nuts with your body" .....when my wife was preg. i was always ready to get busy porno vid or not. mouth stimulus wont hurt either
2006-11-21 05:40:25 · answer #8 · answered by Bucky411_hit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it. You are pregnant for God sake. And what the hell is your husband doing being so insensitive by watching pornos? That should be the real issue. Tell him to grow up. Everything isn't about sex.
2006-11-21 05:29:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 1⤋
Pshyco is more like it. my husband has posters of WWE Divas all over his wall and a Maxim calendar. i get to look at a bunch of skinny wh@res when i wake up in the morning, look at them all day and again when i go to sleep at night. it pisses me off like you wouldn't believe. if i looked like them, it wouldn't be such a problem. but i don't. i'm 32 weeks pregnant. i do not feel sexy. having him get upset at me for eating 2 Taco Bell bean burritos, doesn't help either. and then he keeps a picture of a naked chick as his screen saver on his computer. thanks honey for the emotional support!!!
2006-11-21 05:36:06 · answer #10 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋